I did it! I told my sis we needed to go somewhere no one would bother us. When I told her, she was shocked at first and then started to cry... at that point I wanted to as well, but i was to focused on the matter at hand...so she started to say how its a sin and how she can't begin to think wat my dad and mom would do to me if they ever found out. So I just sat there to let her cool down a bit and let her get out her thoughts. When she was done I told her I loved her, and I'm glad she is always there for me. after a while she told me she was sorry for yelling at me and then started asking random things like what I like in a man, whats my type, random stuff like that.. So it wasn't all bad and it turned out way differently than I thought it would... after words I just thought "heck with it" and called up a bunch of friends and told them. Some of em didn't Like it and others said they loved me for who I am, so yay! I will say the feeling was and still is amazing. I haven't been this happy in forever, plus thank you EC and its users for helping me out of my closet!(&&&) ( sorry for spelling and/or grammar errors )
congrats buddy... i am so glad for you... welcome to the up side of getting out of the closet... now a whole new life awaits you!!!!!!!!
Congratulations! I'm glad you were able to get the courage to tell your sister and then still have enough courage to tell some of your friends! Once again, Congratulations! (!)
thanks everyone! I plan on telling more people that I trust tomorrow when I'm back in school .. one thing you have to know about me, once I get my heart set on something I'm going to see it through to the end! ride:
It sounds like your sister was crying because she cares about you and doesn't want you to be rejected by your mother and father. Congratulations on coming out to her, and I am glad she took it fairly well. It's good to have at least one family member who supports you, so that you have a solid foundation to lean on when you come out to other people. Let us know how your coming out to more people goes, I am interested in hearing about it.
