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Holy shit I just came out to my brother and dad!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by blankpaper, Aug 14, 2011.

  1. blankpaper

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    Ok so I've had to much time off from work recently so I've been thinking a lot about different things and I've been getting very depressed. I decided it was time to let my family know whats up.

    So yesterday I told my brother. I brought it up by asking him why he didn't have a girlfriend and he shot back with "why don't you have a boyfriend?" I basically told him that I'll never have a boyfriend to which he laughed and said "Your a lesbian!". So I threatened to throw a jar of peanut butter at him. In my family that means I love you lol.

    Then today I had the perfect opportunity to tell my dad. My mom was out dancing and we were watching a movie together. I kept on trying to make myself say it but I just couldn't. Eventually my mom came home and I was crushed that I hadn't done it yet. When my mom was in the shower I went to the living room and the conversation went something like this:

    me: so you know how we were talking about secrets (he had found my weed :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:)
    him: yea?
    me: well i just wanted to let you know that I'm gay
    him: oh are you ok with it?
    me: yea just don't tell mom, i feel like she'd be less cool with it than you are
    him: yeahhhhh

    Now i'm hiding in my room :lol: we don't talk much in this family obviously. i may not come out to my mom until I'm physically in college but It's definitely a huge step forward!

    Thanks EC (!)
     
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    Congratulations on coming out!! (!)
     
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    Congratulations!
    We're all really proud of you. :wink:
     
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    Congrats! (*hug*)
     
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    Congratulations (!)
     
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    Awesome!! Congratulations:slight_smile:
     
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    Congrats on coming out! :grin:
     
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    Hahaha thanks everyone! So apparently my dad told my mom, and she doesn't care either :slight_smile: :slight_smile: :slight_smile: Omg I'm finally free!!!

    lol maybe now they won't be so surprised when i ask if I can cut all my hair off :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    Thanks for everything EC!
     
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    Congrads!!!!!! it's really cool that your brother and father took it so well.
     
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    Congrads! I'm glad they took it so well!
     
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    That's awesome (*hug*) Congratulations for being out to your parents and brother :slight_smile:
     
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    Congratulations, I am still working up the courage to come out to my family. I hope they will be as supportive as yours. :slight_smile: