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The slippery slide of outness

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by VampConspiracy, Sep 27, 2011.

  1. VampConspiracy

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    Well, it's been a damn long time since I've been on these forums, no?

    In any case, within that time, I think I've become insanely comfortable with my orientation to the point of not lying to myself at all anymore. I am, in fact, gay. And people know I am.

    That would be, say, the entire engineering group at my college. And, for the sake of not confusing people, my parent"s".

    There is not any one specific time (or even time frame) that I can say I came fully out, except for a certain instance. And oddly enough, I have gotten no bullshit about it.

    Certainly a lighter load on my brain.
     
  2. missyjustice

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    Congratulations on coming out to yourself and others :slight_smile:
     
  3. BradThePug

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    Yay!! :eusa_clap
     
  5. TheEdend

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    That's great to hear :slight_smile:
     
  6. adam88

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    Congrats. :slight_smile: It took me an entire year to get to that point, from when I told my first person.
     
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    Way cool! It's starts with loving yourself.....and totally being who you are! Congratulations!
     
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    Congrats!
     
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    That's pretty epic :3
    glad it worked out then!
    I feel kinda guilty now that it took me about a minute to go from "am I gay??" to "sweet, I'm gay!"
     
  10. cityofangels

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    That's great to hear :slight_smile: Congrats :slight_smile: