So i made a plan to tell my parents and told my sister - Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered people coming out

Hidinginalabama · 17th Oct 2011, 08:29 AM

So I have made a plan and a date for when I'm going to tell my parents and how i want to do it. But it looks like my plan is already falling apart. My idea is to call them on the phone on November 13 witch is a sunday. So i know both of them will be together. But it looks like I'm going to have to go back down south for a little bit to work. That means I'm going to be right there with them. Right in there spece. The space that i wanted to give them so they could take every thing in. My plane is falling apart but i know if every thing goes wrong it will be ok because I still have the date. That is the one thing on one can take from me the time I want to tell them. It may not be the way i want or they could hate me for some time. But i know in time they will come around and i know they will always love me. I have told two people in my family and they are totally cool with it. My sister

Me- L I'm gay
L- ok i still want milk and i have know for some time
Me- What do you mean you have known for some time?
L- You know when I say if only you were gay when we are walking down the street and all those guys are looking at your ass.
Me- Ya
L- Well I have know before you where you of high school. And what kind of kid calls their dad saying dad i need some new pants just because there is a little dirt on them. Really kid there was red flages poping up all your life you were lying to your self. But I'm so happy the you have found the true you and are happy.
Me- Thank you so much

Now lets hope my parents say some thing like that.

**Eleanor Rigby** · 17th Oct 2011, 10:35 AM

Congratulations for telling your sister. Her reaction was awesome !

I hope everything will go fine with your parents. Let us know about it.
Take care, Cécile

alex2020 · 17th Oct 2011, 10:49 AM

Yay!! Congratulations. I'm glad she took it so well!

Blkrsn · 20th Oct 2011, 10:15 PM

That was like my sisters reaction! "Oh? Ok then." *continues eating Mc Donalds*.

Aren't sisters great?

So exciting about how your sister reacted!

quietman702 · 21st Oct 2011, 06:01 PM

All I say is wow!

17th Oct 2011, 08:29 AM	#1
Hidinginalabama EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Say no to the boobs. Say hell yes to men. Out Status: Almost every one other than work Location: alabama Age: 22 Posts: 954 Join Date: Sep 2011	So i made a plan to tell my parents and told my sister So I have made a plan and a date for when I'm going to tell my parents and how i want to do it. But it looks like my plan is already falling apart. My idea is to call them on the phone on November 13 witch is a sunday. So i know both of them will be together. But it looks like I'm going to have to go back down south for a little bit to work. That means I'm going to be right there with them. Right in there spece. The space that i wanted to give them so they could take every thing in. My plane is falling apart but i know if every thing goes wrong it will be ok because I still have the date. That is the one thing on one can take from me the time I want to tell them. It may not be the way i want or they could hate me for some time. But i know in time they will come around and i know they will always love me. I have told two people in my family and they are totally cool with it. My sister Me- L I'm gay L- ok i still want milk and i have know for some time Me- What do you mean you have known for some time? L- You know when I say if only you were gay when we are walking down the street and all those guys are looking at your ass. Me- Ya L- Well I have know before you where you of high school. And what kind of kid calls their dad saying dad i need some new pants just because there is a little dirt on them. Really kid there was red flages poping up all your life you were lying to your self. But I'm so happy the you have found the true you and are happy. Me- Thank you so much Now lets hope my parents say some thing like that.

17th Oct 2011, 10:35 AM	#2
Eleanor Rigby Filip's sidekick EC Advisor Gender: Female Orientation: Straight Out Status: Out as straight ally Location: France Age: 32 Posts: 5,401 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: So i made a plan to tell my parents and told my sister Congratulations for telling your sister. Her reaction was awesome ! I hope everything will go fine with your parents. Let us know about it. Take care, Cécile __________________ "Act in such a way that you treat humanity, whether in your own person or in the person of another, always at the same time as an end and never simply as a means." Immanuel Kant

17th Oct 2011, 10:49 AM	#3
alex2020 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Everybody important, and anybody who asks. Location: Florida Age: 19 Posts: 1,437 Join Date: Aug 2011	Re: So i made a plan to tell my parents and told my sister Yay!! Congratulations. I'm glad she took it so well! __________________ “Be yourself. Above all, let who you are, what you are, what you believe, shine through every sentence you write, every piece you finish.”

20th Oct 2011, 10:15 PM	#4
Blkrsn Well Known Regular Member Gender: Transgender ( FtM ) Orientation: Since I'm trans, I guess I'm straight :) Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Canada Posts: 138 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: So i made a plan to tell my parents and told my sister That was like my sisters reaction! "Oh? Ok then." continues eating Mc Donalds. Aren't sisters great? So exciting about how your sister reacted!

21st Oct 2011, 06:01 PM	#5
quietman702 Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Wheeling, WV Age: 56 Posts: 16 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: So i made a plan to tell my parents and told my sister All I say is wow!

Similar Threads
Thread	Thread Starter	Forum	Replies	Last Post
How do you know if a guy is interested in you?	freecmax	Support and Advice	33	25th Apr 2012 02:09 AM
Coming Out Stories 1 & 2	TesterJ	Coming Out Stories	1	11th Feb 2012 01:07 PM
Came out to my parents this weekend as well as many other family members!!!!	EWU2012	Coming Out Stories	15	2nd Jun 2010 02:49 PM
About Me Again	1980WannaBe	Introductions, Welcomes and Congratulations	3	11th Nov 2009 06:26 PM
I told the parents!	dfgnan21	Coming Out Stories	2	31st Mar 2007 07:01 PM