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Tiny Catastrophe · 2nd Nov 2011, 08:51 PM

One of my little sister and I took a walk with our niece to the park and as we were sitting on the bench watching my niece play we started talking about our big sister. We were talking about like memories we had and how much we miss her and things we wish we told her but never got the chance to. My little sister just got her first boyfriend recently and she was saying how she was upset she never got to tell our big sister and how I got the chance to do that kind of stuff and I said "well there was one thing I'm glad I told her before she died because I really wanted her to know". And of course my little sister asked me what it was so I came out to her. She pretty much reacted like everyone else and said she was glad I got to tell our big sister. I guess I'm glad I told her. I think she already knew tho lol.

TraceElement · 2nd Nov 2011, 09:34 PM

I'm sorry you lost your sister, hun.

I have lost family members (though not a sister) and understand the toll it can take.
I would also like to congratulate you on coming out to your sisters! Coming out to family can be hard.

alex2020 · 3rd Nov 2011, 12:47 AM

I'm sorry for your loss.

However, congratulations are in order for coming out to your little sister. Be proud of yourself!

Chickzak · 5th Nov 2011, 08:02 AM

Really sorry for your loss but she's always with you though, never forget that

Andd congratulations for coming out

Thats brilliant! xD xx

Foxywolf · 5th Nov 2011, 08:21 AM

Congrats!
It was the spirit of your big sister helping you come out to your younger sister.
I'm so sorry for your loss!

2nd Nov 2011, 08:51 PM	#1
Tiny Catastrophe Love is genderless <3 Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: 2 sisters, mom, friends, school Location: New Yorkish Age: 19 Posts: 863 Join Date: Jun 2009	Came out to my little sister One of my little sister and I took a walk with our niece to the park and as we were sitting on the bench watching my niece play we started talking about our big sister. We were talking about like memories we had and how much we miss her and things we wish we told her but never got the chance to. My little sister just got her first boyfriend recently and she was saying how she was upset she never got to tell our big sister and how I got the chance to do that kind of stuff and I said "well there was one thing I'm glad I told her before she died because I really wanted her to know". And of course my little sister asked me what it was so I came out to her. She pretty much reacted like everyone else and said she was glad I got to tell our big sister. I guess I'm glad I told her. I think she already knew tho lol. __________________ Sometimes pain becomes such a huge part of your life that you expect it to always be there. Because you cant remember a time in your life when it wasnt but then one day you feel something else. Something that feels wrong, only because its so unfamiliar. Then in that moment you realize you're happy.

2nd Nov 2011, 09:34 PM	#2
TraceElement The one and only Full Member Gender: Genderqueer Orientation: Kinsey 4 Out Status: to most people who matter Location: Rochester, NY Age: 23 Posts: 455 Join Date: Jan 2011	Re: Came out to my little sister I'm sorry you lost your sister, hun. I have lost family members (though not a sister) and understand the toll it can take. I would also like to congratulate you on coming out to your sisters! Coming out to family can be hard. __________________ Carpe Diem- Grab life by the balls, one day at a time.

3rd Nov 2011, 12:47 AM	#3
alex2020 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Everybody important, and anybody who asks. Location: Florida Age: 19 Posts: 1,437 Join Date: Aug 2011	Re: Came out to my little sister I'm sorry for your loss. However, congratulations are in order for coming out to your little sister. Be proud of yourself! __________________ “Be yourself. Above all, let who you are, what you are, what you believe, shine through every sentence you write, every piece you finish.”

5th Nov 2011, 08:02 AM	#4
Chickzak Well Known Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: like girls; usually attracted to personality xD Out Status: 3 people & mum; still real confused Location: UK, SE England Age: 18 Posts: 245 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: Came out to my little sister Really sorry for your loss but she's always with you though, never forget that Andd congratulations for coming out Thats brilliant! xD xx

5th Nov 2011, 08:21 AM	#5
Foxywolf EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: 95% Lesbian Out Status: One foot out of the closet (Out to 10 people) Location: New York State, near Rochester Age: 19 Posts: 322 Join Date: Jan 2011	Re: Came out to my little sister Congrats! It was the spirit of your big sister helping you come out to your younger sister. I'm so sorry for your loss! __________________ "Say what you mean and mean what you say because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."

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