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Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by fiyerro, Nov 20, 2011.

  1. fiyerro

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    Hi all...

    Here is my story..

    I've been with my wife for 12 years, married for 4. We have a child together which complicates things. She knows tha give been questioning for a couple of months, but doesn't realize that I am pretty sure I am gay... I need help on figuring out how to continue on with this. For those of you who were in this situation, could you share your story?

    Thanks!
     
  2. Ianthe

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    I was never married or anything. But there are counselors who specialize in this sort of thing. Maybe you could find a counselor to help you tell your wife and to help you both going through this process.
     
  3. MommaFrog

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    I am in the middle of a divorce that ended because he was unfaithful. I told him I was questioning my sexuality. He responded by cheating. There were tons of other things wrong with the relationship.

    I think you two could work it out to raise your child, but you should talk to your wife honestly about how you feel.
     
  4. TheEdend

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    I can't imagine how hard it is to have to deal with everything that you are dealing with, but I'm glad that you are found EC. We have a lot of members who are going through or have gone through very similar situation as you so I'm sure someone will chime in :slight_smile:

    You can also contact Jim1454 or s5m1 who have both been in your situation.

    Best of luck! :slight_smile: