Coming out to... YOU! - Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered people coming out

Charni · 22nd Nov 2011, 11:55 PM

I am a cross dresser and I need to tell people. I just told you. Does anybody have any questions? Nothing is off limits. I would actually like people to ask me questions.

Aeon Magus · 23rd Nov 2011, 12:01 AM

Hey, James H.

Question:
What would you like suggestions on?

Edit:
Haha, totally read that first post wrong. Facepalm!

Charni · 23rd Nov 2011, 12:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Aeon Magus

Hey, James H.

Question:
What would you like suggestions on?

Um just ask questions about my cross dressing. I am coming out to the people of EC, because I know they will be nice to me.

Aeon Magus · 23rd Nov 2011, 12:12 AM

Are you comfortable when cross dressing?
What kind of clothes do you prefer wearing?
Is there a certain fabric that you like compared to another?

O.o ...

Ianthe · 23rd Nov 2011, 12:28 AM

How long have you been cross-dressing? How often do you do it?

Charni · 23rd Nov 2011, 12:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Aeon Magus

Are you comfortable when cross dressing?
What kind of clothes do you prefer wearing?
Is there a certain fabric that you like compared to another?

O.o ...

I love the feeling I get when I do it.
I like dresses, long skirts (my girlfriend only has modest clothes) and sirl shirts.
I don't really know what the fabrics were but they are much better than the fabrics in boys clothes.

---------- Post added 23rd Nov 2011 at 07:32 PM ----------

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ianthe

How long have you been cross-dressing? How often do you do it?

I started a few months ago and I did it about every two weeks, but when I told mum she said I am not allowed to doit, which sucks

throw · 23rd Nov 2011, 01:28 AM

Was your girlfriend always okay with it?

Charni · 23rd Nov 2011, 01:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by throw

Was your girlfriend always okay with it?

She was supporive from the start. She is the best thing that ever happened to me.

Hana Solo · 23rd Nov 2011, 04:24 AM

Aww thats so sweet. I'm sure she'll be happy to know that

Hidinginalabama · 23rd Nov 2011, 07:08 AM

Do you just stay in the house when you cross dress or do you go out? Where do you go to get your clothes or do you just wear your girlfriends clothes?

Doctor Faustus · 23rd Nov 2011, 12:22 PM

Are you happy with being male and your, so to speak, male parts?

Charni · 23rd Nov 2011, 12:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hana Solo

Aww thats so sweet. I'm sure she'll be happy to know that

I think she might be. She is awesome.

---------- Post added 24th Nov 2011 at 07:45 AM ----------

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hidinginalabama

Do you just stay in the house when you cross dress or do you go out? Where do you go to get your clothes or do you just wear your girlfriends clothes?

I only ever did it at home. (I say did because mum and dad said I am not allowed to

)
I only wear my girlfriend's clothes

---------- Post added 24th Nov 2011 at 07:47 AM ----------

Quote:

Originally Posted by Doctor Faustus

Are you happy with being male and your, so to speak, male parts?

I am perfectly happy being a male and I guess what's down there is ok (I am not grossed out by it, but I wouldn't reallyl hike to see another).

fiddledeedee · 23rd Nov 2011, 01:14 PM

If you were allowed to, would you do it outside of your home?

Charni · 23rd Nov 2011, 01:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fiddledeedee

If you were allowed to, would you do it outside of your home?

No I wouldn't. I am not open about it to the mean society.

Doctor Faustus · 23rd Nov 2011, 01:39 PM

Definitely straight, or questioning? Somewhere in between?

mike90 · 23rd Nov 2011, 01:39 PM

Good on you for being open about it. Whatever makes you feel comfortable is right for you and anyone who does not accept that doesn't care about you as much as people on here do

xx

Charni · 23rd Nov 2011, 01:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Doctor Faustus

Definitely straight, or questioning? Somewhere in between?

I am definitely straight.

---------- Post added 24th Nov 2011 at 08:45 AM ----------

Quote:

Originally Posted by mike90

Good on you for being open about it. Whatever makes you feel comfortable is right for you and anyone who does not accept that doesn't care about you as much as people on here do

xx

Thanks for the support!

Doctor Faustus · 23rd Nov 2011, 01:50 PM

Btw, what mike says is totally true.

Are you in a relationship? If so, is this your first relationship and/or the first one where you've acknowledged your habit of cross-dressing?

mike90 · 23rd Nov 2011, 01:53 PM

Another thing to remember is that there is no pressure to tell people unless you want them to know. Then again if you want a good way to let people know "en masse" then invite people to a swimming party and jump in in a bikini :P xx

Doctor Faustus · 23rd Nov 2011, 01:57 PM

Lol swimming party! Totally up for that! xD

22nd Nov 2011, 11:55 PM	#1
Charni Banned Full Member Gender: Physically male, mentally everything but male. Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: My girlfriend and 8 others Location: Australia! Age: 16 Posts: 775 Join Date: Nov 2011	Coming out to... YOU! I am a cross dresser and I need to tell people. I just told you. Does anybody have any questions? Nothing is off limits. I would actually like people to ask me questions.

23rd Nov 2011, 12:01 AM	#2
Aeon Magus EC's Blue Gaylien Full Member Gender: I go peepee standing up xD Orientation: I'm a Man's Man Out Status: The people that I care about most. Location: South Africa Posts: 2,259 Join Date: Nov 2011	Re: Coming out to... YOU! Hey, James H. Question: What would you like suggestions on? Edit: Haha, totally read that first post wrong. Facepalm! __________________ Sing me a Painting, I'll paint you a Song Inside my heart is breaking. My make-up may be flaking, but my smile still stays on. The show must go on. Last edited by Aeon Magus; 23rd Nov 2011 at 12:15 AM..

23rd Nov 2011, 12:12 AM	#4
Aeon Magus EC's Blue Gaylien Full Member Gender: I go peepee standing up xD Orientation: I'm a Man's Man Out Status: The people that I care about most. Location: South Africa Posts: 2,259 Join Date: Nov 2011	Re: Coming out to... YOU! Are you comfortable when cross dressing? What kind of clothes do you prefer wearing? Is there a certain fabric that you like compared to another? O.o ... __________________ Sing me a Painting, I'll paint you a Song Inside my heart is breaking. My make-up may be flaking, but my smile still stays on. The show must go on.

23rd Nov 2011, 12:28 AM	#5
Ianthe EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female/Femme Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Oregon Age: 32 Posts: 1,084 Join Date: Feb 2011	Re: Coming out to... YOU! How long have you been cross-dressing? How often do you do it?

23rd Nov 2011, 01:28 AM	#7
throw Riddle me this! Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Not straight? Posts: 112 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: Coming out to... YOU! Was your girlfriend always okay with it? __________________ The future is now.

23rd Nov 2011, 04:24 AM	#9
Hana Solo EC's Dear Abby- talk to me! Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Mostly into girls Out Status: Closet is getting a little crowded Location: Not even a dot on the Australian map Age: 17 Posts: 1,096 Join Date: Nov 2011	Re: Coming out to... YOU! Aww thats so sweet. I'm sure she'll be happy to know that __________________ Thor: No matter what he's done, Loki is from Asgard and is my brother Black Widow: He killed 80 people in two days. Thor: ...adopted. ~The Avengers, 2012

23rd Nov 2011, 07:08 AM	#10
Hidinginalabama EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Say no to the boobs. Say hell yes to men. Out Status: Almost every one other than work Location: alabama Age: 22 Posts: 954 Join Date: Sep 2011	Re: Coming out to... YOU! Do you just stay in the house when you cross dress or do you go out? Where do you go to get your clothes or do you just wear your girlfriends clothes?

23rd Nov 2011, 12:22 PM	#11
Doctor Faustus EC's resident Philosopher at Large Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Not straight. But only interested in men. xD Out Status: People who ask me. People whom I trust. Location: Basingstoke Posts: 1,610 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: Coming out to... YOU! Are you happy with being male and your, so to speak, male parts? __________________ "I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love." - Mother Teresa.

23rd Nov 2011, 01:14 PM	#13
fiddledeedee 22/12-31/12+X! Full Member Gender: Complicated female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Most, sans Dad Location: England Age: 15 Posts: 1,128 Join Date: May 2011	Re: Coming out to... YOU! If you were allowed to, would you do it outside of your home? __________________ A problem should be measured not by the cause of the problem but by the consequences it has on a person. ~ Anfauglith

23rd Nov 2011, 01:39 PM	#15
Doctor Faustus EC's resident Philosopher at Large Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Not straight. But only interested in men. xD Out Status: People who ask me. People whom I trust. Location: Basingstoke Posts: 1,610 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: Coming out to... YOU! Definitely straight, or questioning? Somewhere in between? __________________ "I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love." - Mother Teresa.

23rd Nov 2011, 01:39 PM	#16
mike90 Member Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Rugby - UK Age: 21 Posts: 96 Join Date: Nov 2011	Re: Coming out to... YOU! Good on you for being open about it. Whatever makes you feel comfortable is right for you and anyone who does not accept that doesn't care about you as much as people on here do xx __________________ Being gay is the best thing that has ever happened to me. If I was not I would never have met the most wonderful man in the world, my Peter.

23rd Nov 2011, 01:50 PM	#18
Doctor Faustus EC's resident Philosopher at Large Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Not straight. But only interested in men. xD Out Status: People who ask me. People whom I trust. Location: Basingstoke Posts: 1,610 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: Coming out to... YOU! Btw, what mike says is totally true. Are you in a relationship? If so, is this your first relationship and/or the first one where you've acknowledged your habit of cross-dressing? __________________ "I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love." - Mother Teresa.

23rd Nov 2011, 01:53 PM	#19
mike90 Member Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Rugby - UK Age: 21 Posts: 96 Join Date: Nov 2011	Re: Coming out to... YOU! Another thing to remember is that there is no pressure to tell people unless you want them to know. Then again if you want a good way to let people know "en masse" then invite people to a swimming party and jump in in a bikini :P xx __________________ Being gay is the best thing that has ever happened to me. If I was not I would never have met the most wonderful man in the world, my Peter.

23rd Nov 2011, 01:57 PM	#20
Doctor Faustus EC's resident Philosopher at Large Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Not straight. But only interested in men. xD Out Status: People who ask me. People whom I trust. Location: Basingstoke Posts: 1,610 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: Coming out to... YOU! Lol swimming party! Totally up for that! xD __________________ "I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love." - Mother Teresa.

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