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kylegf2011 · 29th Nov 2011, 05:45 PM

So i was with a friend of mine, we were studying for an exam, talking, and suddenly, out of the blue, he asked me if I was gay! it was sooo random! in the past I would have said no instantly, but now I dont want to lie anymore, so I just said "why are you asking that question now?" and he was like "so are you gay??" and I said "why do you ask?" and he was like "if you dont say no, then youre accepting it!" I just laughed a little and he was like "so you really are!" and I just didnt say anything. I didnt want to lie, but I didnt feel strong enough to say yes. But well, I think he got the picture

Chouchou · 29th Nov 2011, 05:48 PM

That's kind of nosy of him to ask like that, but it seemed like he took it well. Congrats!

Silver Sparrow · 29th Nov 2011, 06:21 PM

I agree with Chouchou, but he probably wouldn't asked if he wasn't going to be accepting. Congrats!

sapphire · 29th Nov 2011, 06:29 PM

He was only asking because he cared. It doesn't seem like he had problems with it. Glad it worked out for you.

29th Nov 2011, 05:45 PM	#1
kylegf2011 Well Known Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: 2 friends Age: 20 Posts: 129 Join Date: Jun 2011	I think I came out to someone else... So i was with a friend of mine, we were studying for an exam, talking, and suddenly, out of the blue, he asked me if I was gay! it was sooo random! in the past I would have said no instantly, but now I dont want to lie anymore, so I just said "why are you asking that question now?" and he was like "so are you gay??" and I said "why do you ask?" and he was like "if you dont say no, then youre accepting it!" I just laughed a little and he was like "so you really are!" and I just didnt say anything. I didnt want to lie, but I didnt feel strong enough to say yes. But well, I think he got the picture Last edited by kylegf2011; 29th Nov 2011 at 05:57 PM..

29th Nov 2011, 05:48 PM	#2
Chouchou Warrior Goddess Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Homosexual (asexual?) and mostly homoromantic Out Status: To some friends, but not to family Location: Wisconsin, USA Age: 26 Posts: 1,109 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: I think I came out to someone else... That's kind of nosy of him to ask like that, but it seemed like he took it well. Congrats! __________________ "The good neighbor looks beyond the external accidents and discerns those inner qualities that make all men human and, therefore, brothers." -- Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

29th Nov 2011, 06:21 PM	#3
Silver Sparrow Proud to be a bookworm! Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Nothing quite fits... Out Status: One person IRL Location: Massachusetts Posts: 174 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: I think I came out to someone else... I agree with Chouchou, but he probably wouldn't asked if he wasn't going to be accepting. Congrats! __________________ Never apologize for showing feeling. When you do so, you apologize for the truth. ~Benjamin Disraeli

29th Nov 2011, 06:29 PM	#4
sapphire Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Friends only Location: Montreal Age: 22 Posts: 34 Join Date: Nov 2011	Re: I think I came out to someone else... He was only asking because he cared. It doesn't seem like he had problems with it. Glad it worked out for you. __________________ "No matter gay, straight, or bi, lesbian, transgendered life, I'm on the right track baby. I was born to survive!" - Lady GaGa