She is so AWESOME!!! - Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered people coming out

MMAnick · 7th Dec 2011, 08:25 PM

So I haven't been on here in a long while but its about to I post something. So I told one of my really good friends that I was bi. It was amzing. We have two other female friends who are in a relationship together and i started off my talking about them. One of them didnt want people to know just yet because she is in the army. After talking about them for a bit i asked he how'd she feel if i said that I was in a similar situation. Her exact words were "donesnt bother me. It doesnt change who you are and I'll love you either way and respect you more for being able to tell me."

I almost cryed when she said that. Shes pretty young to be by friend in most cases but we go to the same gym and she is much more mature for her age than you'd normally see from people (even people older than her). I told her of my fear of being rejected by people if they found out and how I was preparing myself for her to never want to speak to me again. She said the only thing that could cause that to happen is if i were to tell anyone her deepest secret (which she had told me because i told her mine).

This all happened about 2weeks ago but I still smile and feel good thinking about it. She's like awesome awesomeness and I love her so much and really glad she was the first person I was able to tell.

Hana Solo · 8th Dec 2011, 04:15 AM

Congratulations! I know how hard it is to tell people and it sounds like she took it real well. I'm so happy for you

**TheEdend** · 8th Dec 2011, 08:56 AM

That's really great! Congrats on telling your first person. Nothing beats that feeling!

Seems like someone has to update their out status

Chickzak · 8th Dec 2011, 10:44 AM

Yaay!! Congratulations! You must feel way relieved, I'm glad it went so well for you and its good that you have that special bond with your friend because she's the first you told

lovee !

Doctor Faustus · 8th Dec 2011, 11:24 AM

Many congrats mate. I too think an out status update is in order

Onwards and upwards... and outwards, I guess. xD

thecat06 · 8th Dec 2011, 11:57 AM

Congrats!!

**Eleanor Rigby** · 8th Dec 2011, 01:54 PM

That's awesome ! Congratulations

**EM68** · 8th Dec 2011, 02:37 PM

Congrats!

alex2020 · 8th Dec 2011, 02:57 PM

Congratulations!

7th Dec 2011, 08:25 PM	#1
MMAnick MMA Nick Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: 30% BI and 70% Gay i do belive at this point Out Status: 1 person :) Location: GA Age: 23 Posts: 137 Join Date: Nov 2010	She is so AWESOME!!! So I haven't been on here in a long while but its about to I post something. So I told one of my really good friends that I was bi. It was amzing. We have two other female friends who are in a relationship together and i started off my talking about them. One of them didnt want people to know just yet because she is in the army. After talking about them for a bit i asked he how'd she feel if i said that I was in a similar situation. Her exact words were "donesnt bother me. It doesnt change who you are and I'll love you either way and respect you more for being able to tell me." I almost cryed when she said that. Shes pretty young to be by friend in most cases but we go to the same gym and she is much more mature for her age than you'd normally see from people (even people older than her). I told her of my fear of being rejected by people if they found out and how I was preparing myself for her to never want to speak to me again. She said the only thing that could cause that to happen is if i were to tell anyone her deepest secret (which she had told me because i told her mine). This all happened about 2weeks ago but I still smile and feel good thinking about it. She's like awesome awesomeness and I love her so much and really glad she was the first person I was able to tell. __________________ "But they ALL didn't see...the little bit of sadness in me..." - Kid Cudi

8th Dec 2011, 04:15 AM	#2
Hana Solo EC's Dear Abby- talk to me! Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Mostly into girls Out Status: Closet is getting a little crowded Location: Not even a dot on the Australian map Age: 17 Posts: 1,096 Join Date: Nov 2011	Re: She is so AWESOME!!! Congratulations! I know how hard it is to tell people and it sounds like she took it real well. I'm so happy for you __________________ Thor: No matter what he's done, Loki is from Asgard and is my brother Black Widow: He killed 80 people in two days. Thor: ...adopted. ~The Avengers, 2012

8th Dec 2011, 08:56 AM	#3
TheEdend Hope will never be silent EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Extended family still doesn't know Location: Orlando, Florida Age: 21 Posts: 2,831 Join Date: Mar 2010	Re: She is so AWESOME!!! That's really great! Congrats on telling your first person. Nothing beats that feeling! Seems like someone has to update their out status __________________ “You may never know what results come of your action, but if you do nothing there will be no result” -Gandhi

8th Dec 2011, 10:44 AM	#4
Chickzak Well Known Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: like girls; usually attracted to personality xD Out Status: 3 people & mum; still real confused Location: UK, SE England Age: 18 Posts: 245 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: She is so AWESOME!!! Yaay!! Congratulations! You must feel way relieved, I'm glad it went so well for you and its good that you have that special bond with your friend because she's the first you told lovee !

8th Dec 2011, 11:24 AM	#5
Doctor Faustus EC's resident Philosopher at Large Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Not straight. But only interested in men. xD Out Status: People who ask me. People whom I trust. Location: Basingstoke Posts: 1,610 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: She is so AWESOME!!! Many congrats mate. I too think an out status update is in order Onwards and upwards... and outwards, I guess. xD __________________ "I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love." - Mother Teresa.

8th Dec 2011, 11:57 AM	#6
thecat06 EC's Biggest LNJF and SNL fan!! Full Member Gender: Let's say Pangender! Orientation: Let's say gay!! Out Status: Out to parents, campus, and 75 friends on facebook Location: Central and Northern Ohio Age: 19 Posts: 2,504 Join Date: Jun 2011	Re: She is so AWESOME!!! Congrats!! __________________ So many years have passed, since I proclaimed my independence, my mission, my aim, and my vision, so secure, content to live each day like it's my last, it's wonderful to know, that I could be, something more than what I dreamed, far beyond what I could see -Dream Theater

8th Dec 2011, 01:54 PM	#7
Eleanor Rigby Filip's sidekick EC Advisor Gender: Female Orientation: Straight Out Status: Out as straight ally Location: France Age: 32 Posts: 5,401 Join Date: Feb 2009	Re: She is so AWESOME!!! That's awesome ! Congratulations __________________ "Act in such a way that you treat humanity, whether in your own person or in the person of another, always at the same time as an end and never simply as a means." Immanuel Kant

8th Dec 2011, 02:37 PM	#8
EM68 Happily Married! :) EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out and about. Location: Stoughton, Massachusetts USA Age: 43 Posts: 4,288 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: She is so AWESOME!!! Congrats! __________________ I'm beautiful in my way, 'Cause God makes no mistakes I'm on the right track, baby I was Born This Way -Lady Gaga

8th Dec 2011, 02:57 PM	#9
alex2020 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Everybody important, and anybody who asks. Location: Florida Age: 19 Posts: 1,437 Join Date: Aug 2011	Re: She is so AWESOME!!! Congratulations! __________________ “Be yourself. Above all, let who you are, what you are, what you believe, shine through every sentence you write, every piece you finish.”

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