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8th Dec 2011, 06:49 PM
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| EC's Hopeless Romantic Full Member   Gender: Female Orientation: gay, str8, bi Out Status: Out to everyone Location: San Francisco, California <3 Age: 17 Posts: 1,321 Join Date: Oct 2011 |  its a Good day gays I came out to one of my friends and it was a great experience. It went like this; "Yeah she's my girlfriend" "Wait- are you bi?" "No I'm gay! Haha" "You're a lesbian?" "Yes??" "Oh I'm sorry Lena, we can't be friends anymore" "...(:" "...I'm just kidding, love you! *hugs" Sha-weet! I've never gotten a hug from him. It was great (: And I almost came out to my mom today...again. I told her about the YES conference this weekend and she was like "are you gay?". And I said "no" -_- Then we started talking more about gay stuff and she says she's totally fine if I'm gay and she's just worried about what other people would think especially since I might be moving to Montana but I told her I already thought about that. Then she wondered why I was thinking about all these things..nothing lol Am I totally lame for saying no?   ---------- Post added 8th Dec 2011 at 06:51 PM ---------- And I introduced my gf to my best friend..kind of. I just stood there while they introduced themselves heh. Oh well, they met haha
__________________ "The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially." Ernest Hemingway |
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8th Dec 2011, 07:08 PM
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| KierstenChromium, Mistress Of Metal Full Member   Gender: Transgender - MtF Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to 127 people & my parents & 1 cousin so far Location: Sarnia, ON Posts: 1,331 Join Date: Jun 2011 | Re: its a Good day gays First of all, congrats!!!  Im glad everything went so well! As for your mom, ts totally not lame that you didnt tell her. She's your mom, so you care about her & you may be a bit concerned that her idea of who you are may change (which it sounds from what you've said like it won't, in fact it sounds a bit like she may already know), so wanting to pick the time that's best for you to come out to her is probably what you just need to do. These things can't be forced, that's all! 
__________________ Penny: What's Sheldon's deal? Leonard: What do you mean "deal"? Penny : You know, like, what's his deal? Is it girls? Guys? Sock puppets? Leonard: Honestly, we've been operating under the assumption that he has no deal. |
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8th Dec 2011, 08:47 PM
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| EC Addict Regular Member   Gender: Sex - Male, Gender -Female/bigender/not quite sure Orientation: Primarily interested in men. Out Status: fairly out about sexuality, gender not so much Location: Des Moines, Iowa Age: 22 Posts: 1,391 Join Date: Aug 2011 | Re: its a Good day gays Congratulations That's so awesome. I'm out to like all my friends and they STILL haven't met my bf yet so I think that's really cool!
__________________ "You don't need to hide my friend, for I am just like you." |
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8th Dec 2011, 09:13 PM
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| EC's Hopeless Romantic Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: gay, str8, bi Out Status: Out to everyone Location: San Francisco, California <3 Age: 17 Posts: 1,321 Join Date: Oct 2011 | Re: its a Good day gays Aw thank you *hugs!! (: I think you're right, its just going to feel so different when I come out. I might feel normal for once and that kind of scares me for whatever reason...but I'll come out soon, I think she does know so it won't be that hard <3 ---------- Post added 8th Dec 2011 at 09:15 PM ---------- Quote:
Aw man, well I'm sure they'll love him when they do meet him (:
__________________ "The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially." Ernest Hemingway | |
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9th Dec 2011, 09:25 AM
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| Timmies Lover <3 Full Member   Gender: Possibly bigendered? Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: All but family Location: Vancouver Island Posts: 221 Join Date: Nov 2011 | Re: its a Good day gays Congrats on coming out to your friend Don't worry about telling your mom until you are ready to do it, but it sounds like she wouldn't have a problem with it |
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9th Dec 2011, 10:44 AM
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| Member Full Member   Gender: Male Orientation: Not totally sure....But about 90% sure I'm gay. Out Status: 5 really close friends, and one douchebag Location: Southern USA Posts: 74 Join Date: Jul 2011 | Re: its a Good day gays Congratulations, and I'm glad you got a good reaction!! You're mom sounds like she could be a good ally, but wait until YOU are ready! Best of luck!! |
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9th Dec 2011, 10:48 AM
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| EC Addict Full Member  Gender: Female Orientation: Girls Out Status: Pretty much out! Location: East Coast Age: 26 Posts: 307 Join Date: Aug 2011 | Re: its a Good day gays Way to go Rooni |
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9th Dec 2011, 10:48 AM
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| EC's Biggest LNJF and SNL fan!! Full Member   Gender: Let's say Pangender! Orientation: Let's say gay!! Out Status: Out to parents, campus, and 75 friends on facebook Location: Central and Northern Ohio Age: 19 Posts: 2,504 Join Date: Jun 2011 | Re: its a Good day gays Congrats!! I'm sure you will be ready to come out to your mom soon!!
__________________ So many years have passed, since I proclaimed my independence, my mission, my aim, and my vision, so secure, content to live each day like it's my last, it's wonderful to know, that I could be, something more than what I dreamed, far beyond what I could see -Dream Theater |
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9th Dec 2011, 12:57 PM
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| EC Addict Full Member   Gender: Male Orientation: Say no to the boobs. Say hell yes to men. Out Status: Almost every one other than work Location: alabama Age: 22 Posts: 954 Join Date: Sep 2011 | Re: its a Good day gays Congrats on coming out to your friend and in time I know you will find the right time and place to come out to your mom. |
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9th Dec 2011, 05:12 PM
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| EC's resident Philosopher at Large Regular Member  Gender: Male Orientation: Not straight. But only interested in men. xD Out Status: People who ask me. People whom I trust. Location: Basingstoke Posts: 1,610 Join Date: Oct 2011 | Re: its a Good day gays Awesome! Well done! ^.^
__________________ "I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love." - Mother Teresa. |
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