accidental coming out

[gonecountry]

so i had been looking to come out to my college friends for a while now but i just couldn't do it. and then the other night, we got pretty plastered and four of us were outside and my memory is reeeaalllyy spotty but i'm pretty sure i came out to them. like 99% sure. i just don't know if they remember and it hasn't really come up in conversation. anyone else? i might just bring it up myself

[Jski]

I came out to a few friends when we were all drinking too lol. But we weren't that drunk so we all remember it. They didn't care or anything and they love me for who I am! I'm sure you will know when the time is right and you will feel awesome!

[secretgirlX]

Just talk to them about it, if they remember it, well there shouldn't be a problem. If they don't, well know they'll know.

[Ace17]

If you did come out to them and they remember they probably don't care if they haven't mentioned it....are they treating you differently?

[LOTRgirl]

I feel like this is what's going to happen to me, haha. It sounds like it didn't bother them though (I hope I'm that lucky!) I would talk to them though, and see what happens- keep us posted!

[person54]

Originally Posted by gonecountry

so i had been looking to come out to my college friends for a while now but i just couldn't do it. and then the other night, we got pretty plastered and four of us were outside and my memory is reeeaalllyy spotty but i'm pretty sure i came out to them. like 99% sure. i just don't know if they remember and it hasn't really come up in conversation. anyone else? i might just bring it up myself

Oh my that sounds like it would be stressful. I barely ever drink but if I did I would be worried about something like that happening.

[Bradley]

Haha, I was drunk when I came out to my first person too. Just ask them if they remember that night, chances are if they are still talking to you they are fine with it.

[Buenroid]

So the other day, I was messing around with some friends (and the guy I like). So we started to play game where we had to play in teams, I ended up with the guy i like and i was really happy but tried not to overreact about it. So as we play everybody started getting excited, and at the end of game the guy i like and I won. We went crazy and he grabbed me and kissed me, I kissed him back, and lasted there for a few seconds. After I didnt realize it but all of our friends were smiling at us and one of them just yelled out cute lol

[cscipio]

Sometimes the alcohol helps. Like others have said, if they're not treating you different, they probably don't care. Just last Saturday I was with some friends girlfriends who were carrying on to me about how they need to find me a woman. I was drunk and blurted out "Hell, I think I'm bi - maybe gay." Without skipping a beat they were talking about guys I should meet. I'm still not sure what the whole consequence of the conversation is going to be....but I'm kind of relieved I got it out.

[jimL]

ohmygosh! I hope they remember...If you did i'm sure they will remember. Guess your just going to have to ask. Good luck.

[xXPsychedelicXx]

Just ask them. I was chatting with a friend once. Keep in mind that I was never planning on coming out to this friend, because of comments he made in the past.

Friend: "Personally, I don't think bisexuality exists."
Me: "Nahh, it does. I know it does."
Friend: "How could you possibly... Wait. Oh my God, are you...?"
Me: "Umm..."
Friend: "Wow. That's pretty sexy. "

Accidental coming-outs are the best sometimes. Haha!