Wow. this stuff is so effing liberating. It feels so good to have my brother, the most socially rascist person I know, accept me as gay. He didn't even freak out at all. Once again over msn, but it seems to work. They get time to think about what they want to say, you dont see their face and they have the time and space to get used to the idea. Like I predicted, he confessed to pretty much knowing just from having lived with me for 15 years, which didnt surprise me. I told him about this place and he's really happy for me. He wanted to make sure I was okay and that I knew to be carefull about who I tell. Wow, let this feeling never end! i'll sleep well tonight :icon_smil Brenton
Congratulations Brenton, really happy that your brother took it so well. I have my sister and brother still ahead of me. I'm most worried about my brother because his NASCAR friends arern't exactly gay-friendly. With 11 kids, maybe he already has experience with a son or daughter. One at least ought to be gay. I'll be telling my sister soon, probably on the phone first, then the details via email. With stories like yours, I'm encouraged that it will work out ok. Thanks and keep plugging away. Lorenz::eusa_ange