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came out to son

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by murkymike, Feb 12, 2012.

  1. murkymike

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    So when I posted the beginning of Feb I wasretty screwed up(still am) my som ftom my first marrage is in his thirtys I went to vist him in Calgary my 2 gradchildren wrapped me arount thier little fingers we were talking about the fact I really didnt think i was a good father. He disagrred which is a good thing we tlkrd quite abit one night I just blurted out to him and his wife that i was gay they both accetteg it well and both are very supportive the only one suprised was me when he explained how long ago he figured it out!

    now im taking an exellent job in Calgary my currant wife is staying in bc for about a year so ill keep up with the counselling take the time to figure out what i need or want to do then have a long talk with my wife hard after 30 years but she has to know the truth I think ill find out that like my son she must have a good idea

    i just cant believe how much of a differenc it makes when you accept youself i actually see a little bit of light.
     
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    Congrats! Hope things go well with your wife in the future.
     
  3. Gerry

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    Congrats on that! Hope it continues to go this well for you! :slight_smile:
     
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    Congrats on coming out to your son and his wife! That's awesome! :slight_smile:

    Hope things will continue to go well for you. And good luck with your job in Calgary!
     
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    That's great! I'm thankful every day for this site. Keep us updated!!
     
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    Awww congrats!!