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Came out for the first time!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Cicicoco97, Mar 28, 2012.

  1. Cicicoco97

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    Just last night I came out to my best friend as transgender. Since it was on Facebook, this is a transcript of the chat:

    Me: Z (My best friend)... I'm transgender.... I thought it was the right time to tell you when you and A (Our other friend) both mentioned it in the past week.

    Z: Awwwwww... that is the sweetest thing anyone has done. Thank you for confiding in me. And considering you're such a great friend, i don't even mind a bit. I just feel really bad if A and I said something. I don't really remember anything. Trust me though, neither of us meant to hurt you if we did.

    Me: Thanks :slight_smile: And your comments actually made me more confident, because I wasn't as scared that you might react badly. But A doesn't know yet... nobody does, actually. Except you

    z: :") I'm tering up. *Tearing. That was really sweet of you. And trust me I won't say a single peep. I am like the King of Keeping Secrets.

    Me: :slight_smile: :slight_smile: :slight_smile: And if you have any questions, don't be afraid to ask.

    Z: So what exactly does it mean... Isn't it when you're born in one body but is really the oppisite sex

    Me: Yes, that is exactly it.

    Z: Oh okay, phew... I do have the right definition. And that is totally fine with me. I actually respect people who are gay or have a disease or transgender. I think they are extra strong than those of normal people. Oh and another question.... Were you worried to tell people.

    Me: Of course. and I still am. You're the 1st... well, technically the 3rd... but the 1st that counts to me.

    Z: :slight_smile: I'm honored. And You're very brave in telling me. I know I probably couldn't do it.

    We talked for a few minutes and few more questions were asked, then we went to bed. I think this is a victory! (!):eusa_clap
     
  2. Owen

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    I'd say so! Congrats on such a positive reaction!
     
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    Congratulations! Oh yes, it is a victory! It's great when friends are so supportive isn't it? :slight_smile:

    .... and welcome to Empty Closets!
     
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    That's awesome !!
     
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    It's a victory all right! (!)

    Congrats!
     
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    congratz your so lucky to have such great and supportive friends, Victory is yours!
     
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    Congrats! (!!)
     
  9. Hidinginalabama

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    Congrats and way to go you (!)
     
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    Victory indeed, congrats!
     
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    That's awesome! Way to go, glad they were supportive! :thumbsup:
     
  12. Caoimhe Fayre

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    :slight_smile: I am so happy for you right now. congrats, that's absolutely awesome that you have such a supportive friend.