Wow! this is something I never though about. Last week she decided to tell one of her coworkers that I was gay. He told her that he already knew, and come to find out, several others in her office knew. Oh the joys of living in a small town. He told her that one of his friends saw me marching in the gay pride parade this last summer. Not true, I was there but not participating. I just got an email from her at work saying that she was struggling with being there and people knowing. Now she feels as though she needs to talk to all that know and a few more. I guess now she is starting understanding how difficult it has been for me in the last year.