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Came out to my friend!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by samizer0313, Apr 23, 2012.

  1. samizer0313

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    This starts off last night, tired and couldn't sleep when I decided to make a rash decision. I decided I was going to tell my friend I was pansexual and sent her an email telling her I needed to talk to her at lunch. Then after study hall, at lunch, she asked me what I wanted to talk about and asked various questions. Knowing I couldn't just joke around and say it out loud, I wrote it on a random piece of paper in my purse, adding some funny things just to not sound so like just throwing it because that would sound unlike me. Then, I gave it to her and she told me she would read in it the gym and threw her lunch away. A minute or so later, I threw my lunch away, walked into the gym and she gave me a basketball to shoot hoops while she read the note. She was okay with it and she promised not to tell anyone.
    I am so blasted happy! Finally came out to someone other than my online friends. I might come out to my parents later tonight hopefully!
     
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    Wow, congrats! Glad your friend is so supportive, and good luck with your parents, tell us how it goes!
     
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    congrats!!!!

    Good luck if you do decide to come out to your parents!
     
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    congratulations! I'm so happy for you! :grin:
     
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    Thank you everyone and I will definately tell if I tell my parents tonight.
     
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    If you do, good luck! ^^
     
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    It's great having a supportive friend :slight_smile: I'm happy for you.
     
  9. ilovecats

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    Congratulations! I'm glad your friend is supportive. You've made a big step in your journey towards coming out. I wish you luck for if you decide to come out to your parents tonight. :slight_smile: Keep us posted.
     
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    I haven't told my parents but tomorrow, before school, I am going to sneak a note to my mom. Hopefully she'll share with my dad. I, instead of telling parents, told my sister. She was weirded out but she'll get used to it.
     
  11. Zach93

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    Congrats! Its not easy coming out but you are doing it one step at a time! Good luck with coming out to your family, they are usually the hardest to come out to, but we know you can do it! :grin: