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Finally Out to Parents!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by ChutneyFarmer, May 4, 2012.

  1. ChutneyFarmer

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    I JUST CAME OUT TO MY PARENTS!!!!!

    I'm on such a high right now - I just came out to my parents and they totally embraced me! It wasn't something I was expecting, it just slipped out unplanned; but in some ways that was better in that I was able to tell them naturally instead of making it too formal and announced.

    In some ways it's an anticlimax - there was n shouting or raising of vices, just a meaningful discussion about life. It just feels great to have finally gone through with it, and to know that I'm loved. Some things seem a little awkward, but I'm sure over time everyone will adjust.

    To anyone out there who isn't sure whether to come out, I just want to say bide your time and wait for the right moment: you'll know when you're ready.

    To anyone who doesn't want to come out because they're scared, I hope you one day find the strength to take the leap of faith into a fuller life.

    And to everyone on EC, thank you so much. EC has been a lifeline for me over the past year and a half, and has helped me to feel that someone's listening in my loneliest moments.

    (&&&)
     
  2. SkyDiver

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    Congratulations!!!! (*hug*)
     
  3. Lewis

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    Congratulations, I'm so jealous! :slight_smile:
     
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    congrats!!!! :slight_smile: Definately better naturally I think cause everyone is more relaxed :slight_smile:
     
  5. Sayu

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    Congratulations! Now I'm really sort of jealous :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
  6. Lad123

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    Congratulations! You're so brave coming out to parents at 15 ^^
     
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    Congrats!!! :grin:
     
  8. NickD

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    Good work man! I'm so ecstatic to hear that it went so well!
     
  9. jimL

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    Way cool dude!!!!!! I'm so happy your parents embraced you. Feel fortunate because you are. Congrats!
     
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    Congratulations!(!)
    Applause for your parents!:eusa_clap
     
  11. Dalmatian

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    :eusa_clap :eusa_clap It's great to hear stories like these :slight_smile: Well done, you will be so much more relieved now.
     
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    Congratulations! It sounds like you have amazing parents! :grin:
     
  13. ilovecats

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    Congratulations! :eusa_clap I'm happy that your parents were accepting and loving.