After my mom and I had a little depressed cry-a-thon. She couldn't get anything out of me as far as what was wrong. She told me she's noticed that I've been so depressed the last few years and even told me I could see a therapist if I wanted. After an hour or two I just told her that tomorrow I'll unveil everything to her. And my dad is going away for the day and me and her are going to have a long car ride into town. Perfect... I won't bother writing my story or etc because I've posted so many coming-out attempts you all probably know me. This time... Will be the last. *gulp* :tears: Oh what the hell am I getting myself into... Wish me luck. ~ Michelle *note: while we were having our talk earlier, she said she would "still love me no matter what, I wouldn't care if you were even gay. Even if you were some bearded-axe murderer, or you just robbed a bank!" Do you guys think she meant that? I guess I'll find out tomorrow
It seems as though she'd be rather excepting. I wish you the best of luck, and I dearly hope you'll have no need to be flippin' tables tomorrow =)
I think she's sincere, so it looks like she'll be very supportive. The most important thing during the conversation is to try and stay calm and speak from your heart. Let her know this isn't just a phase, not just by telling her, but by your words and story of finding yourself. Good luck and give us updates!
Her: "Okay. Wednesday I'm going to *state*, it will be a very very long ride. We'll have lots of time to talk just the two of us. Would you like to come?" Me: "Sure." So I havn't gotten an answer or reaction yet, but apparently we're "talking about it" for some 4-6 hour car ride on Wednesday. What do you guys think this means? Is she being supportive? Denying? Putting it off?
Have you come out already or is this still a talk about your general mood problem? Either way, going by her earlier statements and seeing as it's only 2 days away I don't think she's denying anything or putting it off. Have a little faith in your mother,she seems like an understanding and caring person.
