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Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by wickedboi, Jan 9, 2008.

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  1. wickedboi

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    so today I told my friend that I'm the way I am (I dont know what to call myself...I am MUCH more then bi....but I'm not 100% straight...im Bay? lol idk anyway)
    so I told her...and she and I have been friends for closet to two years. And I was really nervous to tell her because she NEVER has said anythign about gays. She just simply doesnt discuss the issue. So I didnt know what her "opinion" was. So I told her (passed her a note in class...almost got caught by the teacher, and the note said "I really need to talk to you...afterschool go to choir room" so she meets me there, and no one was in there. So I told her that I like...no not like, LOVE guys and her reaction was this a few seconds of silence......then she said "THANK GOD!!! Finally someone I can go shopping with!" then she is trying to hook me up with her cousin that is 16 that happens to be gay soo yay we both win somin.
     
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    Congrats! :eusa_clap That's a funny reaction. :lol:
     
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    Congrats
     
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    that's great!!!!!!!!!! i'm so happy for u!
     
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    thats awesome
    nice win/win!
     
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    HAHAHA!!! That is exactly what my best friend said, the first person I came out to! Although we can never agree on clothing, so we found out shopping together wasn't such a good idea....
     
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    Haha that sounds great! And good luck with the dude. :wink:
     
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    Shopping, haha stereotypes like that are funny.
     
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    Hey, that's brilliant. I LOVE her reaction. You've got a great friend there. :slight_smile:
     
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    Very good! Congrats.
     
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    One of my girl friends reacted the same when I told her as well. Well done !
     
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    What's with the stereotypes of gays. I hate them. This is part of the reason I'm trying to figure things out. I dislike shopping, I dislike the rainbow symbol, and I dislike the whole cross dressing things.

    I feel like I'm a normal guy, I like the things any straight guy would like. The thing I hate is that I don't think I'm as straight as I would like to be.
     
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    ^ I cant help but agree with you blazikengz, I pretty much feel the same way, and I don't know If I'm ever going to be truly happy with who I am.

    But congrats wikedboi! Good luck with your friend's cousin! :slight_smile:
     
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    i think part of the thing about gender freedom is being as gender conforming or unconforming as you like. so if you honestly feel more happy and "you" masculine, go for it. don't conform to anything unless you want to!

    and yes that is a cool coming out story.
     
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    LOL love the reaction! Congratz!
     
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    Haha that's probably the best reaction ever!
     
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    Congrats! Sounds like it went VERY well!
     
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    haha yea she was excited (we just bought her a new dress for a dance this weekend, and when I say "we" i mean I sit there drooling over some hot guy while she tries on a gazillion dresses and makes me lug them all back lol)

    But today I came out to somone...there is the kid in our class who is quiet and meek, and for the last few weeks I have gotten to know him a bit better and he opens up to me. Well today I decided to tell him cuz he said he wanted to hang out, and I didnt want to start this "friendship" on a lie so I was waiting for the perfect opp.
    During Math class, we had to review some stuff and we played a review game, and for some reason on the side of our dryboard (we used those for our answers) he wrote "Jesus loves you" and I decided to tell him then so I said "does Jesus love gays?" to see his reaction...and he said "of course...why are you?" and in my mind I was like "SCORE!!! HE WONT CARE" so I told him "yes"...well...he made a disgusted face and moved over 3 seats. I am still ticked cuz he is a nice kid but you can tell he is one of those hypocrite kinda people so I am saying to myself I didnt loose anything...it wouldnt have been a good friendship anyway.
     
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    hey-i came out to my best friend today too!!! *high five*! lol

    his reaction was similar to that kid, kinda disgusted, but ive known him since kindergarten and we've been friends a long time, even if he doesnt accept it, too bad, cuz he's stuck with me lol!
     
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    ha ha ha nice

    my mates were also very great about it as well (thats the ones i wernt sure about) yer us was soo socked casue 1 of them is a bit of a twat sumtimes and was like fine wiv it,

    then my over mates that know are the best mates in the worlds any way and thee the only ones that know about my cross dressing and there ok with that as well admitaly quite a few of them are either gay or bi as well lol
     
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