So I just came out to the first person in my family, my cousin. We were texting about our writing and i sent her a chapter of one of my fanfics where i had a little guy/girl scene. and i thought it was really bad cause i can write decent girl/girl ones. Here is the convo: Her: Well, you should see my attempt at girl/girl Me: Do you find it odd that u can write guy/girl and i cant. yet i can write girl/girl and you can't Her: Nah, its preference i guess. Me: But there is a reason (i begin to flip out a little cause i was like "no turning back now") Her: Whats the reason? Me: I'm gay L. (this was like the longest minute EVER) Her: You know what love, thank you for telling me And then she just texted me about how she is really proud of me for telling her. I am still shaking a little but it feels so great to finally be out to her cause we talk so much.