Well where should I start? Just last night I text one of my trustful friend and my mother that I was bi sexual. My mother didn't agree with me to well. In fact she says she would like to talk to me this Sunday. (My parents are broken up, so I live with my dad.) She also in-plied that she will always love me for what I am, thats all it matter's really. It was hard to hold the phone and text because I was shaking, and really worried she would tell other people like my dad and other family members. Or as worse my friends. She made her promise and said goodnight. Butt the whole beginning of living somewhat of other men was in 5th grade. I had my first and maybe for the rest of my life and last boy friend. My mom predicted that I might be bi curious. Butt I say I like both. I am sort of balance. But just one little crumb on the balance meter for the girls. {If you follow me?} So since this was last night, its only the beginning mark of a new era for me.
Your mom said exactly the right thing. Let us know how the talk goes. She sounds like she's going to be supportive.
Congratulations for getting the courage up to come out! And it sounds like your mum is supportive - I really hope that your conversation with her when you see her goes well. The good thing is, she will have had time to think about it, and get over any shock, and to reaffirm in her own mind what she seems to have already said: that she will love you no matter what.
Thank you everyone! You are all supportive! I got some more coming out story to tell you about thursday night. (Last night from this post.) Well before I went to bed I desided to tell my dad since my mom and my one friend knows. I first asked a question and so on. My dad was almost half a sleep when I told him. He was in bed whatching TV. I was standing from his bedroom door. Me - Hey dad? Dad - What...? Me - What is I was something else? How would you.... Dad - What do you mean? Are you alien or something? Me - {little laughter).... No, I mean like, sexual orintation...? Dad - I don't follow.... Me - Well WHAT IF I told you I was gay? Dad - You're gay!? Me - No, I am not gaaa.....y.... (long silent)...... Dad I am bi sexual. Dad - ......what..... But, are you sure? I mean..... Explain why you are and how you are?! Me - Well.... all I can say I like guys too and I had a boy friend in 5th grade. Dose it upset you? Dad - No. Now can I go to sleep? I have to wake up at 3:00 A.M! Me - Okay. Did you expect it or did it supprise you? Dad - It supprised me...! Now, have you talked to your mother about it? Me - Yeah, she knows from last night. [two days ago] Dad - Okay, goodnight! Me - Yeah....... ....... Cya. And that was it, I went to bed and so did he. It was really hard to tell him I was bi, because of the fact he dose not like gay people at all. "We are all common in this world and only the doughts will make it worse for the believers." --Larry "SpielDog".
I am sorry to say but, after a intence thinking over men and women. I actually pafer women more. Alot more. I then discovered this last weekend and desided for myself. I must follow and take advantage on women, not men. I am very sorry to everyone. However, I will countinue my thoughts, and support gay's and bi's.
if that's how you really feel, good luck and the best of happiness! but remember never to deny feelings just to please others, and don't worry if you change your mind. we're always open here
