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I came out to my crush and got a surprise

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by SkyHunter, Jul 9, 2012.

  1. SkyHunter

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    Today I was going back home with some friends, and among them there was a guy I've been crushing on since I met him last week. I somehow knew he was gay, but I didn't ask him because he wouldn't feel comfortable when talking with me. So instead, I decided to come out to him and see his opinion.

    On Friday I started working on a rainbow bracelet, which I really wanted to wear since I started feeling proud of myself. I finished it the day after, and today I wore it for the first time. I noticed he was looking at it sometimes, but didn't say anything. After some time talking, the conversation started going to LGBT-related topics and finally, I came out to him and another girl. I was very nervous, like everytime I've came out to someone in real life, but then he told me: "Don't worry, I'm gay man!" So now he knows I'm pan and I know he is gay. I had never been so surprised by someone when coming out :slight_smile:
     
  2. Night Rain

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    You knew and still you were surprised? xD
    So when will you tell him that you like him?
    Congrats by the way. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
  3. SkyHunter

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    I was surprised because even if I knew it, I wasn't expecting things to go as I had "planned". I may tell him soon, if he doesn't tell me before, because the way he looks at me makes me think he likes me :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Good luck on that! :grin:
     
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    Congrats on it going so well! Let us know if anything happens between you two :icon_bigg
     
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    Congrats on this success!
     
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    I'm so glad it worked out. Sometimes it doesnt go so smooth. It's glad to know that there is hope!
     
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    That's brilliant! Congratulations. :grin:
     
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    Lovely!!! I'm so happy everything worked out!:slight_smile: best of luckk:slight_smile:
     
  10. alexi12

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    so nice to hear the success story! Keep us updated!
     
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    Congrats. I don't know why, but this makes me really happy. Maybe some kind of sense of community
     
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    Congrats on the success! <3
     
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    Congrats, that's really cool. And an unnecessary comment, I really like your pokemon display picture. Aaaw the good days :grin:
     
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    Congrats! Glad to hear it went so well :slight_smile:
     
  15. SkyHunter

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    I've told him today I like him, but he said that he doesn't. Unlucky :frowning2:
     
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    Hi there! Congrats on coming out to him. Sorry to hear though that it didn't turn out the way you were hoping it would.

    Even though he doesn't like you the way you like him, you still should be absolutely proud of yourself. It's not easy telling someone that you like him. But you did it!

    It's okay to feel a bit sad but I'm pretty sure you will find someone who will tell you "I like you too." (*hug*)