I told a bi friend of mine over the Christmas holidays that I'm a lesbian. To my (partial) relief, she'd already figured it out, so this is how it happened. To understand the convo, you must know that I am a spiritual person and there was a rose quartz crystal involved. I believe that they're sent to you for a reason, and that this particular rose quartz was sent so that I would accept my feelings. Anyway, it broke. So when I came to tell my friend about my orientation (Her name is Mana by the way) I texted her before and said that the rose quartz had broken and I wanted to tell her why. So when I next saw her, she dragged me into her bedroom where we were alone and asked me what it was I had to tell her. Mana: So why did the crystal break? Me: Well there's something I've been arguing with myself for 2 years and the rose quartz was meant to help me accept it, and now I accepted it so it broke. Mana: So what was it? Me: *silenced by nerves* Mana: Can I ask you a question? Me: Uh, ya... Mana: When Helen (another friend) said "I'm not that kind of girl" and you were like, "I AM!!" (Reference to a gay joke) were you lying? Me: Uh, no... She was cool with it. Well she's bi so what do you expect? But to this day I still can't figure out how she knew about me before I told her. She's not exactly sure herself. So she hugged me and we went and joined the rest of the crowd, back in the realms of sociality.
Hey, that's a neat story. I actually have several rose quartz crystal pyramids and obelisks for decoration, but none of them have broken. :lol: Congrats on the coming out, though!
That's great! Sometimes people who've been there before can recognise things that you are going through, things you are saying and not saying etc - because they have probably done the same things themselves. So they are just waiting for you to say something, and maybe trying to hint that it's all OK.
Ur friend may have known you were gay (or a lesbian, however you like to identify) because she has a good gaydar- no joke. My dad knew when I came out to him. My mom was clueless. That might explain why she knew. O- congrats!
Wow thats an amazing story. I would love to hear more about these crystals. U seem like a very intresting person PM me if u wana talk =]