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Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by ashkii87, Aug 10, 2012.

  1. ashkii87

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    So here's my story. I haven't "came out" to my family. A few friends maybe not any of my family members. I think some might suspect but i'm not too sure. For now i know they despise the gay lifestyle and that only makes it that much harder. When, where, and how i plan to come out is not set. I'm just hoping when i do it'll be calm and everything will be alright (not believeable but it's a probable). So what i want to know is how to i break the news? I kind of accept myself, but i still have "trouble's". Working on it.
     
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    Hello and welcome Ashkii :smilewave

    Take your time - there are lots of people on EC with experience and ideas which might help you.

    Look through the threads and read what others have to say. Keep asking questions :eusa_clap
     
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    Thanks. I only wish i had support closer to home. I am working myself up to tell a few of my cousin sisters. I'll see how that goes. And if it does go well i know who i can turn to during the "bad" times. :slight_smile: thanks for your advice.
     
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    Welcome to EC ashkii87, I am also in a similar situation, I've only come out to two people so can relate to how you're feeling. I find the best things that help me are to read other stories of people coming out and to talk to others on these forums. There are a lot of really helpful people on here!