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Old 18th Aug 2012, 02:03 PM   #1
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When I first made a Facebook, I was in my denial phase and put "Interested in: Women". Once I started to accept myself a little bit, I took women off and replaced it with nothing. A few minutes ago, I changed it to "Interested in: Men"! I hid it from family members, but I still consider this a huge step! I also realize that this means there is no turning back, because now anyone (aside from family) who looks can know. How exciting!


Edit: Whoops, I could have sworn I clicked on "Coming Out Stories", but I guess not. Sorry, mods!
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Old 18th Aug 2012, 02:17 PM   #2
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Congrats and good for you.
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Old 18th Aug 2012, 02:28 PM   #3
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Yeah it definitely is a huge step, congrats I'm considering doing the same, but I can't find the courage, at least not yet.
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Old 18th Aug 2012, 02:32 PM   #4
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Wow. Pretty cool. I hope I have the strength to do that some day.
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Old 18th Aug 2012, 05:39 PM   #5
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Great! Really happy and excited for you!!
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Old 18th Aug 2012, 06:55 PM   #6
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I have thought about doing that for a while--congrats
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Old 18th Aug 2012, 09:00 PM   #7
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Oh congratulations!

I was actually doing some complaining tonight about the fact that Facebook only has the male and female binary to select from. I'd come out more, I guess, if there were other options.

But hey..that's absolutely great to hear. First step. Baby steps. <3
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Old 20th Aug 2012, 07:07 AM   #8
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Congrats!

I'm still not brave enough to put interested in both men and women despite the fact that a majority of my facebook friends know I'm bisexual.
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Old 20th Aug 2012, 08:00 AM   #9
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I'm really proud of you. On my page I have Men and Women but only select friends can see it. I just hope that one day I'll have the courage to let everyone see it.
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Old 20th Aug 2012, 10:00 AM   #10
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Congrats! That is a huge step!
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