Came out... Again - Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender people coming out

MatthewJS · 19th Aug 2012, 02:08 AM

I wanted to come out to my brother Jesse and my sister fianceè at TWO different times. My sister, me, and Jesse were alone in the living room and it was Mariska idea to come out to Jesse right there. He was pretty shocked. Me and Mariska went in her room and told Mikey(fianceè). He said he kinda knew because the way I act. He was surprised. But they were both accepting. Yay!

**Ianthe** · 19th Aug 2012, 02:12 AM

Congratulations! I'm so glad you are having a good experience. It's wonderful to have family that supports you.

MatthewJS · 19th Aug 2012, 02:17 AM

Next is family. Mariska told me there was a paper I wrote. It was about Ian. Somehow it end up between the lines of the couch when I remember I threw it away. Weird!!

**Ianthe** · 19th Aug 2012, 02:34 AM

That is weird!

Your sister and brother are family, and her fiance is going to be soon, right? Do you mean your parents?

MatthewJS · 19th Aug 2012, 02:35 AM

Yea and my oldest sister and youngest

**Ianthe** · 19th Aug 2012, 02:37 AM

Wow! That will be great! When are you doing that?

MatthewJS · 19th Aug 2012, 02:39 AM

Before my 14th birthday or before christmas

**Ianthe** · 19th Aug 2012, 02:41 AM

When is your birthday? (Mine was yesterday!)

Do you know how you want to do it?

MatthewJS · 19th Aug 2012, 02:45 AM

1/27 happy belates birthday

When they are happy

**Ianthe** · 19th Aug 2012, 03:10 AM

That's probably a good plan.

How do you think they will take it?

MatthewJS · 19th Aug 2012, 03:24 AM

I think they might be shocked, surprised, or happy. But there family they will accept me for who I am.

**Ianthe** · 19th Aug 2012, 04:29 AM

That's good. Since your sister and brother reacted so well, I think it's likely that your parents will, too. Make sure to post if you need help about how to tell them.

19th Aug 2012, 02:08 AM	#1
MatthewJS EC Addict Full Member Gender: Boy Orientation: Gay Out Status: Everyone or Anyone who ask/wonders Location: Alaska Age: 14 Posts: 548 Join Date: Jul 2012	Came out... Again I wanted to come out to my brother Jesse and my sister fianceè at TWO different times. My sister, me, and Jesse were alone in the living room and it was Mariska idea to come out to Jesse right there. He was pretty shocked. Me and Mariska went in her room and told Mikey(fianceè). He said he kinda knew because the way I act. He was surprised. But they were both accepting. Yay! __________________ Just be who you are and don't let anyone change you.

19th Aug 2012, 02:12 AM	#2
Ianthe Empty Closets Advisor EC Advisor Gender: Female/Femme Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Oregon Age: 33 Posts: 3,294 Join Date: Feb 2011	Re: Came out... Again Congratulations! I'm so glad you are having a good experience. It's wonderful to have family that supports you.

19th Aug 2012, 02:17 AM	#3
MatthewJS EC Addict Full Member Gender: Boy Orientation: Gay Out Status: Everyone or Anyone who ask/wonders Location: Alaska Age: 14 Posts: 548 Join Date: Jul 2012	Re: Came out... Again Next is family. Mariska told me there was a paper I wrote. It was about Ian. Somehow it end up between the lines of the couch when I remember I threw it away. Weird!! __________________ Just be who you are and don't let anyone change you.

19th Aug 2012, 02:34 AM	#4
Ianthe Empty Closets Advisor EC Advisor Gender: Female/Femme Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Oregon Age: 33 Posts: 3,294 Join Date: Feb 2011	Re: Came out... Again That is weird! Your sister and brother are family, and her fiance is going to be soon, right? Do you mean your parents?

19th Aug 2012, 02:35 AM	#5
MatthewJS EC Addict Full Member Gender: Boy Orientation: Gay Out Status: Everyone or Anyone who ask/wonders Location: Alaska Age: 14 Posts: 548 Join Date: Jul 2012	Re: Came out... Again Yea and my oldest sister and youngest __________________ Just be who you are and don't let anyone change you.

19th Aug 2012, 02:37 AM	#6
Ianthe Empty Closets Advisor EC Advisor Gender: Female/Femme Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Oregon Age: 33 Posts: 3,294 Join Date: Feb 2011	Re: Came out... Again Wow! That will be great! When are you doing that?

19th Aug 2012, 02:39 AM	#7
MatthewJS EC Addict Full Member Gender: Boy Orientation: Gay Out Status: Everyone or Anyone who ask/wonders Location: Alaska Age: 14 Posts: 548 Join Date: Jul 2012	Re: Came out... Again Before my 14th birthday or before christmas __________________ Just be who you are and don't let anyone change you.

19th Aug 2012, 02:41 AM	#8
Ianthe Empty Closets Advisor EC Advisor Gender: Female/Femme Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Oregon Age: 33 Posts: 3,294 Join Date: Feb 2011	Re: Came out... Again When is your birthday? (Mine was yesterday!) Do you know how you want to do it?

19th Aug 2012, 02:45 AM	#9
MatthewJS EC Addict Full Member Gender: Boy Orientation: Gay Out Status: Everyone or Anyone who ask/wonders Location: Alaska Age: 14 Posts: 548 Join Date: Jul 2012	Re: Came out... Again 1/27 happy belates birthday When they are happy __________________ Just be who you are and don't let anyone change you.

19th Aug 2012, 03:10 AM	#10
Ianthe Empty Closets Advisor EC Advisor Gender: Female/Femme Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Oregon Age: 33 Posts: 3,294 Join Date: Feb 2011	Re: Came out... Again That's probably a good plan. How do you think they will take it?

19th Aug 2012, 03:24 AM	#11
MatthewJS EC Addict Full Member Gender: Boy Orientation: Gay Out Status: Everyone or Anyone who ask/wonders Location: Alaska Age: 14 Posts: 548 Join Date: Jul 2012	Re: Came out... Again I think they might be shocked, surprised, or happy. But there family they will accept me for who I am. __________________ Just be who you are and don't let anyone change you.

19th Aug 2012, 04:29 AM	#12
Ianthe Empty Closets Advisor EC Advisor Gender: Female/Femme Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Oregon Age: 33 Posts: 3,294 Join Date: Feb 2011	Re: Came out... Again That's good. Since your sister and brother reacted so well, I think it's likely that your parents will, too. Make sure to post if you need help about how to tell them.