So today my mother forced me to go to church with her. I, being agnostic, didn't want to go, but I no longer regret it. I used it as a time to reflect and through those thoughts, decided I was going to come out to my mother on the drive home. As I sat there thinking, I picked up minor supportive things during the mass. I decided that as my mother and I drove home, I would come out to her. As soon as I had built up my courage, I told her. She was rather surprised because I had previously had girlfriends and I explained to her that I was simply repressing my homosexuality. After that, we talked about it for awhile. She was extremely supportive of me and told me that she would always love me. Even after we got home she came into my room and we talked even more. She warned me about how society handles gays and what I am going to have to deal with as I come out more. She agreed to let me tell my father on my own and not to tell my brother, which is a huge relief. It was really great being able to talk to my mother and even better that she was so supportive. Thanks to all of you guys for showing me how great coming out is and giving me the courage to come out. Hearing your guys' stories has been a true inspiration to me and I'm so lucky to have all of you.
Thanks everyone! Next I'm going to tell my dad, probably tomorrow. My mom continues to be supportive of me and even complimented me on my bravery to come out to her. And yes, it feels very good!
Wow, that's an awesome story. I'm relieved that she did accept you. Seeing as she's a Christian, I didn't think she would. Your mother sounds like a wonderful person. Often the mother is more supportive then the father. So you were right to tell her first. I wish you nothing but the best as you continue to come out.
