1. This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this site, you are agreeing to our use of cookies. Learn More.

Well this is a shocker

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by jocr92, Jan 27, 2008.

Thread Tools

Thread Tools

Page 1 of 2
  1. jocr92

    jocr92
    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jan 21, 2008
    Messages:
    0
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Hawaii
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    last night at our schools sophomore banquet, there was my friend and he looked so good. his name is brandon and he is the hottest filipino kid you'll ever meet. he is a bit sheltered and not so bright with slang terms, but he's a hella of a dancer (i cant dance period.)
    Anyway, he is bi or gay... i dunno, one of them anyway... and he was dancing with my date (we both didnt have dates and we didnt want to go stag so we just went with each other) and he looked so good in the dance light. I wanted to kiss him.

    Now thanks to this site, everyday i feel alot better about myself and i feel more trusting. i dunno what it is but it makes me feel safer and i can trust my friends more than i do now.

    now my best friend, carissa, she is like the most awesomest person EVER. she is always there and i can always trust her. We were talking about one of our friends that was crying after the social and i just had the urge to tell her and i told her i was bi. and i knew she would accept it because secretly (shhh) she said she was a bit bi as well. well,we were talking about acceptance and how lesbians can make out in public and its ok and gays cant (do you see any gay male couples displaying PDA at YOUR school? The answer is NO.) and i trust her so much. and now, i love brandon even more. next time we are alone... im going to ask him out :O :kiss:

    what am i going to do?! :eek:
     
    #1 jocr92, Jan 27, 2008
  2. CrimsonThunder

    CrimsonThunder
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jul 2, 2007
    Messages:
    2,467
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    South Australian!
    Your going to ask him out. lol
     
    #2 CrimsonThunder, Jan 27, 2008
  3. jocr92

    jocr92
    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jan 21, 2008
    Messages:
    0
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Hawaii
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    le gasp? what if something happens that is not in my favor? ... le gasp....
     
    #3 jocr92, Jan 27, 2008
  4. CerahWright

    CerahWright
    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jan 21, 2008
    Messages:
    9
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    around Cincinnati
    Gender:
    Female
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    well, you are at least putting yourself out there, and that's a risk and i applaud you for it.
     
    #4 CerahWright, Jan 27, 2008
  5. biisme

    biisme
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Oct 9, 2007
    Messages:
    0
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Rhode Island
    congrats for telling someone! and it wiil be great! i'm rooting for you!
     
    #5 biisme, Jan 27, 2008
  6. Luroon

    Luroon
    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jan 24, 2008
    Messages:
    123
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Minneapolis, MN
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    Have confidence in yourself. If he shoots you down, pick yourself back up and go on living. If he isn't the one, he surely isn't the only one. Good luck!
     
    #6 Luroon, Jan 27, 2008
  7. beckyg

    beckyg Guest

    Joined:
    Mar 19, 2007
    Messages:
    6,656
    Likes Received:
    6
    Location:
    Middle of Oregon
    Gender:
    Female
    Sexual Orientation:
    Straight
    Take the risk.....it's the only way to life life.
     
    #7 beckyg, Jan 27, 2008
  8. acorn7

    acorn7
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Dec 12, 2007
    Messages:
    568
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Montreal
    Yeah, I agree. Especially if he's gay. Good luck :wink:
     
    #8 acorn7, Jan 27, 2008
  9. BabyBoy

    BabyBoy
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jan 17, 2008
    Messages:
    185
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Pennsylvania
    I say go for it, because rejection isn't the last thing on earth. For all you know, he'll come and say "Wow, I like you a lot too" and whatever else, and you'll both be happy :slight_smile:

    And I wanna see pictures, I like hot filipino guys
     
    #9 BabyBoy, Jan 27, 2008
  10. mcrteenagers

    mcrteenagers
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Nov 26, 2007
    Messages:
    188
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    London, Ontario
    Ask him out. See if you don't, you'll kick yourself forever wondering "What if I did."

    Short story even shorter: go for it!
     
    #10 mcrteenagers, Jan 27, 2008
  11. Hollywood

    Hollywood
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Dec 8, 2007
    Messages:
    455
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    North Carolina
    ahhhh-be happy because you are making a huge step on the road to complete acceptance of your sexuality! :slight_smile:
     
    #11 Hollywood, Jan 27, 2008
  12. Nicvcer

    Nicvcer Guest

    Go for it! We're all rooting for you if you didn't notice! (!)
     
    #12 Nicvcer, Jan 27, 2008
  13. Grof142007

    Grof142007
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Apr 27, 2007
    Messages:
    1,051
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    High Point,North Carolina
    DO it regrets sucks
     
    #13 Grof142007, Jan 27, 2008
  14. Suede7

    Suede7
    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jan 20, 2008
    Messages:
    47
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Delray Beach, FL.
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Wow! So you say........"thanks to this site everyday I feel better about myself"

    Lol!! you ain't seen nothin yet!! Wait till you ask Brandon out!

    Then........tell us how ya feel!(!) Oh Yeah!!!

    Here's to the "Power"
    Stay Strong!! n Good luck w/ Brandon! :icon_wink

    Suede7
    Delray Beach, FL.
     
    #14 Suede7, Jan 28, 2008
  15. jocr92

    jocr92
    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jan 21, 2008
    Messages:
    0
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Hawaii
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    thanks guys. this means alot.

    i just came out to my other friend kahea. shes cool about it. with brandon... i havent asked him out yet. ughhh.... i dunno when, we are NEVER alone!!!
     
    #15 jocr92, Jan 29, 2008
  16. Bromptonrocks

    Bromptonrocks Guest

    Joined:
    Sep 16, 2007
    Messages:
    129
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    UK
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    ...exactly. If you don't try you'll never know. Nothing to lose....LOTS to gain..good luck.
     
    #16 Bromptonrocks, Jan 29, 2008
  17. GlindaRose

    GlindaRose
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jan 20, 2008
    Messages:
    1,230
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    London
    Gender:
    Female
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Other
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    Ask him out! ASK HIM OUT!!!
     
    #17 GlindaRose, Jan 29, 2008
  18. jocr92

    jocr92
    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jan 21, 2008
    Messages:
    0
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Hawaii
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    awwwww..... i did and he totally does not like me. like he told me off in the harshest way ever. i m not heart broken or anything because now i dont have to worry or anything but he is just weird and doesnt want to talk to me now, even though im over him now but its sad that he told me in the harshest way he could :frowning2: oh well time to move on :grin:
     
    #18 jocr92, Feb 1, 2008
  19. Urman

    Urman Guest

    awwww its ok u will find ur true love eventualy.
     
    #19 Urman, Feb 1, 2008
  20. Psychedelic Bookmarks

    Psychedelic Bookmarks
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Oct 24, 2007
    Messages:
    1,481
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    UK
    oh, harsh. well, that's his problem. people who turn others down harshly are just displaying their own lack of sensitivity, it syas nothing about you :slight_smile:
     
    #20 Psychedelic Bookmarks, Feb 2, 2008
(You must log in or sign up to post here.)
Page 1 of 2