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I think I did it

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Pepsi, Feb 3, 2008.

  1. Pepsi

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    So I was talking to my friend on aim and well I was gonna tell her because I really wanted to but every time I try in person I cant seem to get the words out so I decied why not try. But then I changed my mind and she asked wat it was I wanted to tell her I just saied I changed my myspace song, she asked if that was it and I said yea, but then I wrote how I was gay and not to tell anyone ( which Im sure she'll try her sister but thats ok because Im best friends with her sister too, they're twins, and I know she probably wont tell anyone else) but I didnt send it I just wrote it because I heard once that writing letters and emails and stuff and not sending them helps people. Then I acciedently hit send, then before she even replied i sign off aim because i freaked out. So yea, I think Im out to my friend. ( I should probably talk to her)
     
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    I would definately talk to her. But congradulations!!!! You are out to someone!!!!
     
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    You should talk to her and be proud that you're out to someone. Good job.
     
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    yes....go talk to her.

    but, congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!
     
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    Congrats on coming out!! I'm going to be very boring and say the same thing as everyone else - talk to her!! Sorry I can't really say anything better than that...
     
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    haha sweet! dont worry. the first person always seems like the hardest. actually i wouldnt really have anything to compare to since ive only really come out to one person. still, thisll help pave a pathway to more. go get 'em!
     
  7. Nicvcer

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    accidentally hit send. I should do that more often haha. Awesome, you're out to her, I'd be getting back on there!
     
  8. Pepsi

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    So I went back on and this is it basically


    oo I apoligize in advance if anyone is a spanish teacher

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    Zaplingfire (5:01:30 PM): hello?
    Katy1292xo returned at 5:03:55 PM.
    Katy1292xo (5:04:02 PM): HEY
    Katy1292xo (5:04:30 PM): was wha you told me true?
    Zaplingfire (5:04:38 PM): maybe
    Zaplingfire (5:04:41 PM): yea
    Katy1292xo (5:05:11 PM): okay i just want you to know im happy for you and im proud of u
    Katy1292xo (5:05:18 PM): =]
    Zaplingfire (5:05:18 PM): ok
    Zaplingfire (5:05:28 PM): dont tell anyone, ok
    Zaplingfire (5:05:32 PM): ?


    Katy1292xo (5:05:35 PM): i didnt
    Katy1292xo (5:05:45 PM): when are you gunna tell fi
    Zaplingfire (5:06:10 PM): I dont know. I was gonna tell u both today but i kinda just froze up
    Katy1292xo (5:06:17 PM): does chelsea know
    Zaplingfire (5:06:36 PM): no, no one knows, I dint even me to hiyt send to you
    Zaplingfire (5:06:45 PM): Im glad I did though
    Katy1292xo (5:07:21 PM): yeah you shouldnt be afriad to tell us stuff
    Katy1292xo (5:07:37 PM): are you gunna tell christina
    Zaplingfire (5:07:41 PM): I'm not, but this is just .... different
    Zaplingfire (5:07:58 PM): yea, I dont know when though
    Katy1292xo (5:08:42 PM): ooh when are you gunna tell fiona
    Zaplingfire (5:08:56 PM): I dont know, soon I guess.
    Katy1292xo (5:09:53 PM): yeahh you should
    Zaplingfire (5:10:05 PM): I know, when Im rdy i will
    Katy1292xo (5:10:08 PM): you know this is exciteing'
    Zaplingfire (5:10:25 PM): ahh ok if u say so
    Katy1292xo (5:10:33 PM): lol
    Zaplingfire (5:10:51 PM): really, please dont tell anyone, like noone
    Katy1292xo (5:10:58 PM): i wont
    Zaplingfire (5:11:05 PM): k
    Zaplingfire (5:11:24 PM): sooooo.... um whats up with you
    Katy1292xo (5:11:49 PM): nun much that sandwich i had earlyer was yummy
    Zaplingfire (5:12:01 PM): what was on it
    Katy1292xo (5:12:15 PM): turkey lettus tomada
    Katy1292xo (5:12:25 PM): lol tomado*
    Zaplingfire (5:12:35 PM): ooo that is yummy. roll or white bread
    Katy1292xo (5:12:43 PM): roll
    Zaplingfire (5:13:03 PM): OO god that must have been awesome, that place has awesome rolls
    Katy1292xo (5:13:11 PM): i know
    Zaplingfire (5:13:22 PM): I think its the seeds they have
    Katy1292xo (5:13:42 PM): yeahh mayuun
    Zaplingfire (5:14:31 PM): so I put two pics of myself with this haircut onm myspace. one looks really bad but I put it on anywho. oo and i really did change my myspace song. To Vienne by Billy Joel
    Katy1292xo (5:14:56 PM): i know i just listened to it
    Katy1292xo (5:14:58 PM): lol
    Zaplingfire (5:15:08 PM): I loove that song
    Zaplingfire (5:16:15 PM): I was sitting there and I was like, " Momentum has been my myspace song forever, i M GONNA CHANGE IT." tHEN i WAS LIKE, SOMETHING BY bILLY jOEL
    Katy1292xo (5:16:20 PM): i know this is off topic but doesnt this color look like poop
    Zaplingfire (5:16:30 PM): Ewww it does
    Katy1292xo (5:16:40 PM): tee hee
    Zaplingfire (5:16:52 PM): thats disgusting
    Zaplingfire (5:16:59 PM): did I spell that right?
    Katy1292xo (5:17:06 PM): idk
    Katy1292xo (5:17:07 PM): lol
    Zaplingfire (5:17:23 PM): LOL I'd be in shock if I did
    Zaplingfire (5:17:41 PM): OMG, I didnt fail any classes. Chealsea was pissed
    Katy1292xo (5:17:56 PM): what!
    Zaplingfire (5:18:13 PM): Yea, in some I even got 80's
    Katy1292xo (5:18:20 PM): omg what was the lowest grade got
    Zaplingfire (5:18:39 PM): I got two 65's those were the lowest but I didnt fail any
    Katy1292xo (5:19:02 PM): omg you must pass your test good
    Zaplingfire (5:19:18 PM): and in chem which is supposed to be sooo hard I got an 80
    Katy1292xo (5:19:33 PM): lmao
    Zaplingfire (5:20:15 PM): chealsea was pissed, she was all " You missed half the marking period thats not fair" and I was all " Bite me"
    Katy1292xo (5:20:34 PM): lmao
    Zaplingfire (5:21:29 PM): NO it is weird though because I missed three weeks and none of my theachers said a thing, then I was absent on tuesday and my spanish teacher yelled at me. LOL
    Katy1292xo (5:21:58 PM): lol
    Zaplingfire (5:22:19 PM): And I swear I said to him " Are you serious?"
    Zaplingfire (5:23:00 PM): I should make a mental note that if i wanna be absent it has to be at least 2 weeks long
    Katy1292xo (5:23:35 PM): ooh realy thats weird
    Zaplingfire (5:23:54 PM): yea it was
    Katy1292xo (5:24:30 PM): spanish teachers are assholes
    Zaplingfire (5:24:52 PM): yea they are, I hate spanish
    Zaplingfire (5:25:22 PM): oo and Im not in chorus anymore so I dont have to go to school till 8:40
    Katy1292xo (5:25:49 PM): bitch!
    Katy1292xo (5:25:51 PM): lol
    Zaplingfire (5:26:16 PM): yea well u get to leave earlier so what do you care
    Katy1292xo (5:26:44 PM): i do?
    Zaplingfire (5:26:50 PM): you leave like 40 mins before me and all you do to get home is walk for two minutes.
    Katy1292xo (5:26:56 PM): what time do you go home
    Zaplingfire (5:27:00 PM): 2:40
    Katy1292xo (5:27:20 PM): ooh i get out at 2:10
    Zaplingfire (5:27:32 PM): I know its not fair at all
    Katy1292xo (5:27:47 PM): hahahahhahahhahahahha
    Zaplingfire (5:27:54 PM): wat time u go in though
    Katy1292xo (5:28:09 PM): 8:astonished:o
    Zaplingfire (5:28:11 PM): hmm is it 8:40, I didnt think so
    Zaplingfire (5:28:35 PM): So overall Im there 10 mins. less than you
    Katy1292xo (5:28:48 PM): ohh
    Katy1292xo (5:28:55 PM): yeahh you are
    Zaplingfire (5:29:03 PM): Yes,l I win
    Katy1292xo (5:29:14 PM): well i gtg din din is ready
    Katy1292xo (5:29:22 PM): =]
    Katy1292xo (5:29:28 PM): ttyl
    Zaplingfire (5:29:33 PM): k nite
    Zaplingfire (5:29:37 PM): dont tell anyone
    Katy1292xo (5:29:48 PM): bye i wont






    OO yea my screenname is zaplingfire if anyone ever wants to talk about something
     
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  9. Ilayis

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    congrats
     
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    kudos on the Billy Joel song,great tune. Isn't weird how after coming-out to certain people its almost like it didn't happen?That's how it was with my sister and my mom,we were all so close that it was just like a new thing to add on.You'll notice that with the closer people;they don't really care(or wont freak)becaue they already know who you are. The exception to that is parents sometimes. Are your parents liberal-ish or are they like, right-wing fanatics?

    Still though
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  12. Pepsi

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    Thank you all for your Congradulations, I cant spell so youll have to excuse me
     
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    that's funny becuase i wasn't sure how to spell it myself haha.:grin:
    and thanks,i made it myself.
     
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    Congrats. I must say I've never talked to someone about sandwiches on msn before. >_>
     
  15. Pepsi

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    oddly thats one of the most normal things I have talked about online
     
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    I love how you posted your whole convo about school and sandwiches up there, lol!

    well, congrats!!
     
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    Ooooh, congrats! I love reading people's IM logs. :lol:
     
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    Pepsi,

    Congrats!!

    Just wait!...............you think this is cool?............It's gonna get way better!!
    With each friend you tell..........your confidence will grow.........then you'll have the friends with "loose lips". I was pissed at first but later refered to them as "helpers" cause eventually I came out to the folks they spoke to as well. You'll continue to be suprised by the support you receive from those you might least expect.

    Truth is, you will have your share of "Hi's" & "Low's" totally normal..........yup! just like ridin a roller coaster! Good news is.........you're coming out in the City that was first to openly embrace the gay & lesbian lifestyle. (read more about the Stonewall riots of the 70's) You're a lucky man!!

    Hold on!! it's one heck of a ride!! :eusa_danc

    Stay Strong & Press On!

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    Congratz!! :grin: Lol I hate spanish teachers too..because mine was an a**hole...until I dropped spanish lol (no offence spanish teachers)
     
  20. Pepsi

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    I just told my other friend! AIM makes it really easy, I told her because really I felt bad about tellling her sis and not her. and I loveher ( Shes always been the better twin LOL)
    Plus I hate lieing to the people I care about. Im gonna hate having to tell someone in person. so yea thats it