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Out (part 2)

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by goratrix, Apr 10, 2005.

  1. goratrix

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    Oh well... I did it.... I came out to my second person. Tonight. She lives in Buenos Aires, and I met her on MSN... and I just told. hey... I need to talk to you...

    she siad: what?
    me: nothing
    she: come on, tell me
    me: I'm gay
    She: pitty for the girls, lucky for the boys
    me: I'm serious
    she: really?
    me: yes
    she: how did you find out
    me: I've always known
    she: is this a joke?
    me: no
    She: why didn't you tell me earlyer
    me: fear. fear of you treating me differently


    She was soo cool about it. She was extremely supportive. I kinda knew she would react like this. She used to mention some of her old friends that were outted gays... and well... it was so comfortable telling her... I'm really happy I told her.
     
  2. goratrix

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    And persons 3,4 and 5 are comming in the next two weeks... oh well.. I guess there's not comming back now.
     
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    Hey - you're on a roll! Well done. :icon_bigg
     
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    Well done goratrix! :slight_smile:
     
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    Well done goratrix. I'm really pleased it seems to be going ok for you. (I'm still sorry for teasing you about your exams!!)
     
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    little update: since I was writing this post as I chatted with here I didn't post the full story.

    Oh , well. I told her about this guy I like (yeah, still with the 15 y.o. sorry, I'm stupid... I can't help it) and she also said he was way too young... and that perhaps... in three years... when I was more comfortable, and he had grown a little... oh well...

    and I lost my sleep thinking about him. SUCH AN IDIOT!! (me, that is)
     
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    Congradulations!
    BTW: Dont take it too hard on yourself about that guy, crushes are hard to deal with, especialy when you see him all the time and you need to keep it a secret. I'm sure you'll get over it sooner or later
     
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