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Came out to my mum

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by EllieSong, Oct 15, 2012.

  1. EllieSong

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    I was having a really bad day yesterday and suddenly I had enough of my mum telling me that I can tell her everything so I first told her how I feel and then I told her about a comment my physiotherapist made a few weeks ago when I told her I don't want a boyfriend right now and I said I don't want to go to her again.

    And then my mum and I started to talk about it and then I told her I think I like girls and she asked me if I'm sure and all and then she hugged me and told me I could never do anything to make her not like me and that she just wants me to be happy but that if I end up with a girl my life would be a bit harder.
     
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    Hi there! First off, congratulations on coming out to your mom! It's wonderful that your mom supports you and that she wants to be happy. :slight_smile:

    Looking at your location, and depending where you live in Slovenia, I can see why your mom might be a bit worried that your life could or would be a bit harder. That said, things will probably still work out well for you later on in life as well.
     
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    Having supporting parents can really be the most comforting thing even if the whole rest of your world seems like they all hate you for loving. My mom is the only one in my family I'm out to at the moment, and I've never regretted telling her since. Though we don't talk about it much, we get along as great as ever and I feel a sort of exclusive confidence between us that I haven't managed to establish with other members of my family yet. Very glad to hear your mom's on your side about this too. =)
     
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    Congratulations!
     
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    haaay, that's great to hear. many congrats
     
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    Congrats on coming out to her. Glad she's supportive of you!
     
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    That is nice, glad that she was there for you.
     
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    Congratulations on telling her, and I'm glad she was supportive. :slight_smile:
     
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    congrats on your courage and having a supportive mom :slight_smile:
     
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    That's really awesome! :eusa_dancGlad she's being supportive.
     
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    I live in the captial but so it's better than it would be if I lived in the countryside or village but it's not all that good.

    Thanks to everyone. :icon_bigg I know I'm really lucky to have a mum like her.
     
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    Congrats! That is awesome.