She wasnt freaked out, more like surprised. She told me that maybe I just missed her. I confessed to her that I like her too. She said its okay. Nothing will change.
Yay for you for being brave enough not only to come out but also to confess you liked her Xx. That's fantastic to how she reacted also.
the problem though is just my friends are saying im friendzoned since she said nothing will change. half of me wants her and half just wants to stay friends. but then im already thinking of things that i will do to make her mine.
I think you should listen to your gut more than your friends, unless they are friends you have in common with this girl. If you feel you are in the friend zone, you probably are and there's probably nothing you can do about it. If, on the other hand, she starts flirting with you, that's another matter. For the time being, I'd recommend simply waiting. You have already made a "move" so to speak, by telling her you like her. Now it's up to her to either discard the possibility of a relationship, or to embrace it. Either way, you may not know for sure for quite some time. Meanwhile, I strongly encourage you to flirt with some other girls you find attractive and prioritize feeling good about yourself so that not so much will depend on her interest or lack of it. Has she given you any clues as to whether she might be interested in girls as well?
I just did the same thing! I'm currently dismissing any chances I have with her since I know she doesn't feel the same. It's a major grieving process I know, but we have to accept that the girlies just want to be friends. =( I'm in the bargaining stage though so to me friendship is better than nothing lol
