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Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by JakeHas, Oct 28, 2012.

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  1. JakeHas

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    So I have no idea what came over me a bit ago... I randomly just started writing a long text message to my sister explaining my orientation... I said I was bi. The thing is, she's in her bedroom, in the same house, right below my room (I'm upstairs).
    I guess that'll be my third coming out! I did NOT expect her to know like that via text, and I especially didn't expect right now. I think she's asleep though. So...
    Wish me luck when she wakes in the morning! I hope she understands...
     
    #1 JakeHas, Oct 28, 2012
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    Well, good luck! (or you could just sneak into your sister's room, find her phone and delete the message :lol:slight_smile:
     
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    That is also a factor! Haha. No I'm kinda glad whatever went over me did, I have no idea how I was going to do that.
     
    #3 JakeHas, Oct 28, 2012
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    I would go with the delete option, personally, or say your phone got hacked. Just so you can come out to her face to face, rather than something as impersonal as a text. Maybe it's just me, but I feel like I owe my family members a face to face; so do it if you feel comfortable! Or wake her up and say, "I just sent you a text, we need to talk, sorry for waking you but it's important!"

    Good luck either way.
     
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    I'm pretty sure it will be fine, and I think she is awake. Damnit, she must just be talking on the phone or something and not read it yet. Oh well, still glad I did it!
     
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    Go to her... be proud! Hopefully she is cool with gay... If not, plan an escape route.
     
    #6 TheSeeker, Oct 28, 2012
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    Let us know how it goes.

    You seem to be doing a good job of moving right along with the process.
     
    #7 Joey4, Oct 28, 2012
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    Ditto, let us know. :slight_smile:
     
    #8 Alan Lewrie, Oct 29, 2012
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    I hope it all goes well and we'll all be hearing good news from your end!

    When I came out to my sister I just sort of blurted it out... It was quite awkward actually... xD
     
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    Alright here's what happened. I had gone to sleep, not fully, but I was laying in my bed when she actually texted me back. I was expecting her to run up here or something! But no, we had a long conversation (via text haha) she's completely cool with it and has a lot of support for me. This part was actually quite funny, I has asked her opinion and what she thinks about it. This is what happened:

    *cue long text of random stuff. At the end of the text I said*
    "Also, how exactly do you feel about it??"

    "personally? i don't give two fucks about what you are. gay straight bi a dinosaur i don't care"

    I sure got out a few chuckles on that one. Thanks everyone who replied with support!
     
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    Beautiful, congratulations buddy!
     
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    Congratulations!!!(!):eusa_danc :grin:

    I am glad everything turned out for the best:slight_smile: I hope that your future coming outs goes just as well as this one:icon_bigg
     
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    Congrats friend! I'm glad all went well!
     
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    Now another person knows, one of my friends who is a girl. This is happening so quickly! Ah, haha
     
    #14 JakeHas, Oct 29, 2012
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    Good luck <3
     
    #15 TheLovelyAudrey, Oct 29, 2012
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    CONGRATS! I wish I was half as brave!!!
     
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    Congrats!! Must be a relief
     
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    Glad to hear things are going well for you~
     
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    Awesomeness!!!!!(!)
     
    #19 Rachyl, Oct 30, 2012
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    :eusa_clap
     
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