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My first outing.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Adamantium, Oct 28, 2012.

  1. Adamantium

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    (In my initial excitement, I posted this in the wrong section of the site. If a mod wants to move one of them, go ahead. I hope this is okay.)

    Hi everyone,

    For the past few months I've been slowly coming out to friends I trust the most. One of them is a great straight female friend who has been my biggest supporter and best friend through all of this. She invited me to a Halloween party with her last night that was thrown by a couple she knows. She wanted me to attend a gay event. We had about 50 people in attendance and it was mostly gay guys, some straight girls with a few straight guys mixed in. I was so nervous and even almost backed out at the last minute, but I went.

    I AM SO GLAD I DID!

    Everyone was so welcoming to me and I made some new friends. I live in a small college town in the deep south, so being surrounded by other people like me was such a huge change and relief at the same time. I met new people, had a few dances, even got kissed! On the way home (I rode with my friend) she told me a few of the guys there talked to her about me when I was away getting a drink or dancing and I have some interest. The biggest compliment of the night?

    "They said to keep your mask off because you're too cute to hide that face."

    I feel so alive!
     
  2. Haley M

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    That is great! I wish I had a supportive friend to talk to more often. I'm so happy that you had a great experience with that! :slight_smile:
     
  3. Joey4

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    Haha. Very cool. Congrats, buddy.
     
  4. Brenny

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    That is pretty amazing!