I finally came out to my best friends. One on Thursday and the other today. Basically, my friend wanted to have a "heart to heart" conversation with me on Wednesday, and I kind of avoided that, because I thought I wasn't ready at all to come out. Then, I promised we'll have this heart-to-heart tomorrow. Tomorrow happened, and I still couldn't say, so she told me she could just guess and see if it's right. Well, she only guessed once (which really is pathetic: everyone seems to know, at least from what my friends tell me). And yeah, Thursday was a really great day. Then, I felt (sort of) confident about telling my other best friend after school today, and it was simply amazing. Even though I couldn't come out to her myself (my friend did it for me), I feel elevated - and it's so good. Reflecting back from two days ago, after I come out, I realized that I'm considerably content with being gay. We talked about guys all day long (which is somewhat weird, but I'm getting used to it). And we had to go to this concert thing for my school, and I'm pretty certain I flirted with my crush today (10 POINTS! lol) And yeah, basically, it's really good to have some part of myself out of that stupid closet. It's practically claustrophobic. :tantrum:
One guess eh - obviously you weren't hiding it as well as you thought! It's great that your friend realised though and set up this discussion to get it sorted. You have some great friends there! Welcome out of your closet!
Congratulations! Sounds like you've got a great bunch of friends there. I bet you love that fresh air, too!
Congratulations! The feeling you have after experiencing a positive coming out is amazing. They sound like good friends.
It's really weird talking about guys, though. At least for me, to them it's like completely awesome to have a gay friend. I'll get used to talking about guys soon enough. (!)
Aww that's great!!!! None of my straight friends seem to want to discuss hot guys with me :lol: Way to go!!
The best perk to being out of the closet, except the liberating feel of being totally honest with yourself, is getting to talk about hot boys with your girlfriends in my opinion. Congratulations.
