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My Second Person.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Joey4, Nov 18, 2012.

  1. Joey4

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    I told my second person tonight.

    He originally was going to be my first person, but the time when I told my actual first person was so opportune, I couldn't pass it up. Anyway.. I got back from the game and met with my second person at the bar. We were amongst friends, so I sent him a text asking if we could talk in private for a moment. We went out side and I told him that I wanted him to be my first. I told him "It's something you were already aware of" and when I asked him if he had any idea what I was about to tell him, he asked if "I was coming out of the closet." I told him yes. He seemed surprised. Either he figured I never would, or wasn't quite sure if I really was. When I left the bar, I took my friend home that had a little more than I did. I sent my second person a text and told him "thanks again." We had a short conversation. Here's part of it:

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    He's been a very good friend of mine and I knew that in choosing him, it would be very easy. I knew this guy would love me no matter what and he reconfirmed it tonight.
     
  2. Night Sun

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    It sounds like you have a very supportive and understanding friend. :slight_smile: Congratulations on a successful coming out. :eusa_clap (!)
     
  3. Joey4

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    I do. Thanks Night Sun.
     
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    Congratulations!
     
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    Congratulations on coming out to your friend! :slight_smile:

    These are the best moments. I hope your coming out journey continues as it has started. Glad it went so well for you!
     
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    Congrats on coming out! I'm glad to see that your friend accepted you!
     
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    Congrats! It is awesome how one comes to truly realise how much our friends do care and support us.
     
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    That's a great story, and I'm really happy for you. :slight_smile: I like the text you received, that's definitely a real friend, and I hope that your coming outs continue to go as well.
     
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    Thanks guys for checking out and supporting my progress. I was actually excited for this one, probably because it was planned. I'm looking forward to the follow up conversation. I'll definitely use his opinion to gauge the next most appropriate friend to tell.

    It's pretty cool to have a couple friends in on this. I kind of like having this big secret to share with a select few for awhile.
     
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    Congratulations on coming out to your friend
     
  11. Maunglwin

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    Aww...thts awesome!! It's great that your friend is supportive & accepting u for who u r!! Hope more support will come your way n u can b completely out n happy one day!!
     
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    Thank you, guys.
     
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    Wow sounds like a true friend