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I came out to my best friend last night.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by TheFirstStep, Nov 18, 2012.

  1. TheFirstStep

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    Yesterday, i came out to my best friend.

    It was the most tence moment of my entire life, my emotions were all over and i was in complete upheaval.

    i segwayed off of one of his conversation topics, intoone of my own. then i committed to what iwanted to do, and i asked if he would continue to be my best friend, even if he knew something about me that may shock him.

    that was when i proceeded to tell him.

    the look on his face was...

    acceptance

    i poured my heart out to my best friend, and he sat there and took it all in, intently listioning to my every word.

    after i was finished, he tookmy shoulder and pulled me to his chest, and gave me a hug.

    i broke down as i hugged him back,andhe said that i was still the same NAME that i always was, and that he could never judge me because of something i had no controlover.

    the feling was that of intence liberation, compassion, and thankfullness.

    We talked deep into the night, moving from story to story, laughing as i told him what i was really thinking diuring the course of our friendship.

    ive never, in my life felt so understood and accepted.

    even now, it brings me tears of happieness.
     
  2. Ticklish Fish

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    Congratulations!
     
  3. Mirko

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    Congratulations on coming out to your best friend! I'm happy for you that he accepts you and is there for you no matter what. That's awesome! :slight_smile:
     
  4. withoutApaddle

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    I know that exact feeling. It's great!
     
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    We need a like button lol
     
  6. Vivi

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    Wow, thats such an inspiring coming out story! You've got an incredible friend. Congrats (!)
     
  7. TheDifferent13

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    Congratulations! I wish you all the best with future coming out moments :slight_smile:.