Well recently one of my friends told me in science class that he was 2 on the Kinsey Scale (in other terms bi, with a girl preference). We have been talking about various things on myspace/msn including that. He is out to a lot of people so far and has asked me b4 I knew that he was bi, if I was gay(On Msn)? I said "Only for attention". After I found out I told him I was at least 2 on the Kinsey Scale too. So he knows I'm not straight. I know this isn't such a big coming out but I guess it all helps toward coming out more and more. I would have told him "I'm Gay" before, but it is a really strange situation: He outed one of my other friends as being gay (Told 1 person, this person has told a few people by now including me) and doesn't talk to him anymore. So I don't really want to say the words because I don't want to be confronted by it and lie about what I said. Anyway, I guess this is a sorta "little" coming out and also asking advice about what to do.
congrats =] but if you have any doubts at all about him outing you then its probably best not to tell him that you are gay. but when you are ready for everyone to know then tell him, it will save you the hassle of telling everyone if he does it does you
Congrats thats good to hear.Also CrimsonThunder makes a very good point it happened to me.But Congrats anyways(!) (&&&) :eusa_danc :eusa_danc
This is kinda random but I think he is sending me messages to come out. lol I think he's one of the people who try to get others to come out. here are some of the things he's said to me on Myspace: -just tell ppl, no one will care, its no good to lie to ppl -maybe one day everyone will tell all and we'll all find out Oh yeah and the other day he told my group that 3 people apart from him weren't straight (in out group) Does it sound like he's safe to come out to? How can I tell?
He seems like he's pushing you a lot. It isn't his place to do that, it should be comfortable to you. But it also may be that he is a lot more gay than he admits since he apparently likes to talk to you about it and has more than one gay friend. Bonne Chance
I'm glad someone else thought that! He said it was easy coming out as bi (2 on the kinsey scale), I didn't think it would be easy to come out unless you came out as bi and you weren't, well at least more than 2. Anyway, I thinks I won't tell him, I'm giving him heavy drifts that I'm not straight. But I think I won't come out to him. He is a gossip, but I don't think he's out me. Than again it's just not worth the risk especially when I'm so far away from being out to everyone. Merci pour l'advice! lol
I think you have made the right decision, he sounds pretty unstable to me. Does make me wonder why he is fishing for info.