I had as nickname in my messenger: Valentines i the biggest shit ever. SHE: It's not. ME: It is. SHE: Its just because you dont have a girlfriend? ME: Or a boyfriend.... *cries* SHE: Don't be sad... SHE: Are ye gay? ME: Yes, I am SHE: I just find it cool that you're not embarassed about it. SHE: And I support you SHE: Follow what you believe in :] ME: Aw, thanks! SHE: It doesn't change at all the fact that I love you :] ME: you know it's been very hard (then I go on with my whole acceptance stuff blah blah) ME: and I can't come out to my family either they'll be like "YOu're BAD go AwaY!!!!" SHE: You should tell them, Really. SHE: It's so written in your eyes that you are gay... How come your family doesn't know? (after some other questions, she told me) SHE: I knew it from the beggining. I suspected from the start and after some time I just knew it. And then the convo just got really derailed. XD So, now, I am like.... am I really that obvious? So, that's a POINT for me. YAY!
Congrats! That sounds like the conversation I had with my best friend when I came out to her over messenger She said she'd always known too. If she's always known and is still by your side, you've got a great friend in her.
If I've noticed anything from reading the stories here, it's that most people you come out knew you were gay before you did. Congratulations on success! I hope it goes just as well with everyone else you come out to.
Haha I was texting my best (girl) friend and we were talking about me coming out to my mom, cause I'm nervous, and she was like, "sorry to break it to you but she prolly already knows" Lol I think she does too, but for some reason, I just can't tell her Rright. Back on track, congrats! Lol all my friends (that I've told) have been good with it
Same here. I've given off a few accidental hints throughout my life, and my mom's never suggested that I get a girlfriend or asked if I have one, but I still can't bring myself to tell her. Or my dad, or anyone else in my family. Anyway, didn't mean to hijack the thread. Continue.
good job...i wish i could tell my guy friends that im gay. But i dont know what they will think, so i havent done it yet. And i dont have any girls to hangout with either, since i broke off hanging out with this girl cause she wanted me and im not interested in girls at all..mmm i wish my friends used AIM then maybe i could tell them ...
Awww, thank you everyone... its just feels... good! LOL! And the guts, that'll come when you're emotionally ready to come out....
Congrats!!! It gets a lil easier to tell some more of your friends....BUT you still have that milestone about your parents, but whatever you choose, good luck!
I am out to a select 2-4 friends. I can't tell my parents b/c I know that I would be letting them down.