Hello everyone! I'm a 48 year old married man from Va. My wife and I have been married 23 years. We have two beautiful athletic teenagers. After years of clues I came out to my wife December 1, 2012. It's been a rough road but we are getting along better but still alot of pain and frustration. We will be separating later in January. This was so so hard to admit to her but I couldn't keep living the lie to her anymore.
Wow, that must have been really hard. I'm proud of you man. I hope the separation isn't a shit storm, my dad has been divorced twice now and it is hard on the us kids. So please, for their benefit talk to your soon to be ex and tell her to think of the kids during the seperation. (My dad just got married for the third time over thanksgiving, yippy! Not.)
