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Came out to 1st friend!!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Wired106, Mar 1, 2008.

  1. Wired106

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    So last week I came out to my parents and they were perfectly fine with it and totally support me. But now it seems like im gaining confidence in this and really like the fact that I'm unique. Today, I was talking to a girl that really used to like my back at my old school and I havn't seen her in a couple months and I think she still really likes me but anyways I was on the phone with her and decided to tell her because she is really good to talk to and understanding. It took a while to come to the point where I said I was gay and I told my parents recently and they were ok with it. She listened for a while because I had a ton to tell her and she told me that she would promise that she wouldn't tell anyone and that she is always there if I need to talk to someone about stuff that is going on. And she told me how she supports me 100%! I've been so happy that I'm actually telling people about this now and they are really accepting so far :slight_smile: :slight_smile: :slight_smile: :slight_smile:
     
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    High five for that :]

    Is there a lot of gay kids in your school though. I know this sucks for me to say, but, it is SanFran right?


    Idk maybe I'm just stereotyping lol.
     
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    lol there actually are a lot of gay people around san francisco obviously lol. And around the cities nearby sorta. But at my school, since I go to an all guys private school, no one is really out of the closet yet, BUT I was on facebook the other night and found out that there were a few bi sophmores in my school that are my same grade, and that's awesome. I couldn't believe it though because there's this one really good looking kid that I don't really know too well but I've always noticed him and it turns out hes bi! But you never kno, he might just be gay because I just say people's profiles saying women and men but it's not like they are gonna reveal that they are 100% gay at an all guys school or else they might get made fun of. But it's pretty cool :slight_smile: . O ya, and you're right, lol I live near San Francisco.
     
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    Congratz!! :grin:
     
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    Hodang. All boys private. That's even scarier.

    Well if they're out at school as bi, maybe you can be out as bi too? Because you seem like they have pretty smooth sailings at your school. So idk, just my suggestion[?]

    Haha :]
     
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    Congrats!! Good to hear that things are going so well (!)
     
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    that's great! i'm glad it went so well :slight_smile:
     
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    Well that's GREAT!

    It's gets easier the more you tell to tell others.

    Kudos! :thumbsup:
     
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    Congrats with that! Great to hear things are going so well.
     
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    It's a great feeling when you tell your first friend.
     
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    thanks guys. ya I've been thinking of that though, and might just post my facebook as bi or something like that so I don't have to tell everyone individually. I might tell a few people that I know will be cool with it and won't tell anyone and then I might just post it for the rest but I don't think that will be really soon. Maybe. I don't know. lol. :slight_smile:
     
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    Congrats!
     
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    One down! Congrats! (!)
     
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    Yay!! Gratz :eusa_clap