I have been in a relationship with one of best friends since September, before I knew I am gay. She and I were texting, and I brought up the subject of secrets. She told me hers and I (paraphrased) told her to brace herself. I then told her that I am gay, and that I realized it after we started dating. She is still in shock, and I don't know what is going to happen next :bang:, but she told me that she will not tell anybody because she does not believe in outing anybody. It just feels good to know that there are still good people left in the world, and that I have officially started the process of coming out!