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Just told my best friend

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Oothatsnice, Jan 24, 2013.

  1. Oothatsnice

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    Wow feels so strange now ive told somone. This is how it went: If i siad i was gay would u be bothered wanted to tell u for ages. This is gonna make thinks awarked now. Dont say anything to know one. He said this.whos stole your phone lol. No one ist me i knew ud say that its me :/. No is it f**k. (Me) ??? (Him) what (me) your last message (him) is it u now (me) always has been me shouldnt have said any thing :/ (him) are you been serious (me) yep. Then he didnt reply for abit. (Me) k dude guess you dont know wat to say (him) no im just going to speak like we normally do (me) ok i feel a bit better now (him) okay. Then ive been out to night ns weve spoke and he dosnt care one bit. He doesnt understand anything about gay people wich is kinda funny tbh. Sorry if this is messy just wanted to say how it happend. Ha im still shaking (!)
     
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    Nice im so proud of you ... wooooo way to go!!!
     
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    Not sure I understand this at all... But Congrats! I'm glad he is accepting of you!
     
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    Atta boy! I know how tough this situation is and the delay & inability to see & read his face by doing it via text had to make it a bazillion times more difficult. Good for you! But I would suggest that in person is a better choice in the future. It may be a bit more intense, but then again, you get immediate feedback (good or bad) and if the person is a dick about it at least he doesn't have a text to show everyone. I'm so happy to hear that the experience went well for you (as it always has for me. Yay good friends!!)
     
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    Ah, I hope he doesn't loose his nut thinking you're going to molest him. You might want to talk to him about gay people before someone else does. x'D
     
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    Ha hes not that kind of person plus ive know like 18years. Just need to talk to him abit more
     
  7. Darkrai

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    Congrats!!! Wish I could do the same.

    I think you might even enjoy your friendship with him now. No more having to hide who you are :grin:
     
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    I just got the feeling to tell him so i did. No regrets
     
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    I did it over facebook. n_n haha~
     
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    Good for you! I'm sure the silence between must have really stressed you out! That is one of my worries the "I don't know what to say" silence
     
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    I was sat on a bus coming home from work proper shaking and when he disnt text back i was regreting the whole thing its the wirst feeling ever.
     
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    I'm so glad it turned out well :")