We were doing filosophy homweork today with a frined of mine... well we were talking about what we like and stuff and she was talking about Cohelo's books that are very good for depressed people, she asked me then... Have you been depressed? I was like... I am... right now... A lot of things going on... aceptance stuff... you know what I'm talking about? She answered: Yeah, I know classes are hard and accepting you're not the best student -Then I interrupted her with "I'm gay" and she was like.... wooowooowhat!?!? And that :O Face... then the silence.... and she was like... That's all? I was like, yes.... [silence] then we started laughing.... LOL! Was my first time to say that outloud... you know not typed or written. And it feels great! She is a flight atttendant and she tells me most of the guys are gays so she has no problem with that... (Then I asked her, get me ajob there she was like >_>) (!)
Yay congratz!! So far all my attempts at 'I'm gay' have resulted in an awkward silence in which the other person figures it out before I actually get to say it. I've only ever done it by text. So cookies to you!
:roflmao: That is officially one of the best reacions ive evere heard. Congrats! That feeling of saying it outloud is amazing hope your future experiences are just as good:icon_bigg
What made me very sad is that she was not that supportive afterwards. She had her idea of me just being confused (When I already told her I don't want a relationship with a girl but with a guy, and even that I dont imagine myself having sex with a girl for all the rest of my life as in marriage) I was sooo sad I guess time will make her relize I know what I want.
:dry: The age old confused response... well at least when she realises that you're not "confused" she'll be supportive of you :icon_bigg So try be positive and give her some time to adjust
Unplanned outings with possitive reactions are always good. It's also very relieving to say "I'm Gay" out loud for the first time as well. I've been thinking about a career in flight hosting too *smirk* Well done
So, Talking about espontaneous ones, here's another one: This friend of mine had a big NO written in his desk (my friend is a he, straight). I asked: "No what?" He replied: "No, I'm not gay". I was like He aksed me: "and, are you gay?" And you will guess that my answer was.... ...YES! He was very ok with it So yay *scores another point*
By the way, he just told me that the "No, I'm not gay part, and his questioning me" was a joke, and he had no idea. *sighs*
