I'm coming out to my parents, and as you imagine... I'm very scared. I think my mom knows, but my dad is an evangelical, catholic, pro-life, anti-gay, conservative republican.... how will I tell him?
Who say's you have to tell them at the same time? if you don't think it's a good idea you can just tell you're mom first that way it's easier to deal with it in case she doesn't accept it then you only have to worry about talking with 1 person.