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My final coming out

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by CHML, Feb 19, 2013.

  1. CHML

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    I have been out for a long time now. And pretty much all of my friends know this. But there were still a lot of people that didn't know. People I've worked with, my teammates and some relatives. So I figured what is the best way to just freakin say it so that I don't have to hide myself anywhere anymore. I wrote a come out on facebook and it went something like this.

    Some of you might be surpiced to hear this while others already know. But A) I'm in a relationship B) It's with a woman C) I'm a lesbian, always have been and always will be.
    I don't want anyone to tell me after this that I just haven't met the right guy, because I don't like guys and I will bite the persons ear who dares say this to me again.
    And I don't ask what you do with your man/woman in the bedroom so why should I tell you what I do there. If you are so interested go and try it yourself.
    I do not check out my friends butts nor do I check out my friends while they are in the shower, don't flatter yourselves.
    And I did not start playing ice hockey so I could check out chicks. I am not that stupid. If I wanted to check out girls don't you think I would have started figure swimming or something like that. Hockey is the least sexy sport there is and there is no skin showing anywhere. Over and out :icon_wink
     
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    Congratulations!
     
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    Wow that took a lot of courage!! Congrats!! :grin:
     
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    Yeah it did but I'm glad I did it :grin: No more having to talk about guys with everyone :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Coming out like a boss. Nice job.

    What were the responses like?
     
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    Very nice job. Congrats sweetie. This is super.
     
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    Congrats! You're so courageous :eusa_clap
     
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    You did that with style. Congratulations!
     
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    Congrats! My final coming out was on Facebook!
     
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    Such an inspiration! Congratulations!

    :eusa_danc
     
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    Absolutely nothing negative. People I was scared of were simply surpiced but happy for me. And then they said after a while of thinking I'm not that surpriced after all :grin:
    I don't know why I was so afraid of peoples responses, I guess I'm really lucky to be surrounded by people this amazing :slight_smile: