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I didn't even say anything..

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Probablyrandom, Feb 28, 2013.

  1. Probablyrandom

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    This is, by far, the BEST day and most confusing day of my life.

    I spent all night planning out telling my best friend (who just happened to be my crush) that I'm gay. I called to invite him over and as usual we spent an hour talking about random things. In the middle of it, I asked him a bit about gay relationships and what he thinks, just as a hint to give him when I really do break the news. I never really asked him about it but the response was very weird..He told me he's all for it, when I asked 'why?' he said he thought that he told me before that he's bi..I mean..wow..just when I things couldn't get any better he said 'what about you?' I stuttered for a bit and he told me that he thought i was bi as well before..after i said yes and continued the conversation..he only responded with 'i knew it'

    I mean..wow...just..wow. I can't explain the feeling. I mean, I'm beyond happy yet I feel so calm..I feel like i should be running around like a madman right now but i just feel so relaxed! Hell, does this even qualify as coming out? I didn't even say anything. Meh, who cares, this was much much MUCH easier than I expected! It's all thanks to this site! Thanks alot for helping me out! I wouldn't have ever told anyone before I got this little push! :grin:
     
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    Congrats! Glad to hear it went so well ^_^ Reminds me of when I first came out as bi to a few friends. It was like 'hey guys, I'm bi' and they were like 'took you long enough' Anyways
     
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    Congrats!!! (!) :eusa_danc :eusa_clap

    And I hope that the situation turns out in your favor. :thumbsup:

    Sidenote: I think at some point you might want to tell him you're gay just so he knows the truth.
     
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    This is a one of a kind situation. :grin: Congratulations!
     
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    He teed you up that well, and you said "bi" instead of "gay"?? Oh well, it's something I guess. It means he could be open to dating you. :grin:
     
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    Congrats! I'm glad it went well :grin:
     
  7. codys12345

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    Congrats! I haven't had a friend say that is was about time I had told but still I know how it feels to come out!
     
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    I am in the same boat as you were. Going to tell him soon (hopefully within a week). I can just hope that his reaction/response is the same. More of him just being accepting of it... but him being bi/gay would be a nice bonus :icon_bigg
     
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    damn you guys have guts....nice job bruh...

    maybe one day i'll find the nerve to tell my mates...