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Came out to my family

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Musician, Mar 25, 2013.

  1. Musician

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    I had a meeting with my family and my girlfriend where I said I might be gay. That I lean about Kinsey 4 (said 2/3 gay, 1/3 straight). My parents suggested I sort this out in real life - that I meet a guy and find out. If I meet a good one, then I know for sure. I have never had a real experience with one, so this is all up in the air for now. If I find I'm truly gay, then hooray! If not, I still have my girlfriend, who can be my best friend for now. My girlfriend and I have already vowed to be friends for life. My parents couldn't have been more accepting and supportive. I love them so much. Everyone I have come out to have given me so much ground and foundation to experiment with my life, and to find what fits best. I am the luckiest guy on earth, even if my situation is not what I wanted or expected.
     
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    You are indeed very lucky, I wish you the best in your adventure with men, you may find you are luckier still!
     
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    Wow, that’s awesome!! Congratulations! :slight_smile:
     
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    Congrats! I'm glad your family is so accepting :grin:
     
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    Congrats! I'm glad you have such supporting people that care for you and is helping you along the way :slight_smile: Good Luck with it and i hope you find the answer you wished to find :3
     
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    That really sounds beautiful. Acceptance is a great thing to have while you are discovering yourself. You really are lucky to have them :slight_smile: Congrats :slight_smile:
     
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    Congrats :eusa_clap Wonderful, you have a accepting family.:thumbsup:
     
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    It makes it SO much easier to have a family like I do. I am the luckiest man in the world.
     
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    Wow, that great news to have such supporting parents and girlfriend and they are happy for you to go out to "field test" your feelings in the real world. Whatever you learn about yourself in the process you will become a much better and understanding human being.

    Have fun discovering your true self and whatever the outcome you know you have taken steps to make the right decision with the full support of your family and girlfriend/ best girl friend.

    Sale Gay Guy
     
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    Very happy for you - what an amazing family and girlfriend.

    Well, you've jumped off the cliff with much courage and bravery -- now we're all here to support you along the way.

    Congratulations.