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came out to my teacher

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by darthmalik14, Mar 27, 2008.

  1. darthmalik14

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    So today i came out to my teacher who's known me since 7th grade, so it was a really big thing to come out to her because shes like my big sister.
    i when i came out to her she was really cool with it and we just kept on chatting about when i found out and all of those questions that people ask you when you come out. and so she asks me
    Her "so why did you come out to me and not one of the gay teachers?"
    Me "two things, first because your like my big sister and your always there for me, and second i didn't know that we had gay teachers"
    Her "wow...mateo you really are clueless"
    Me "yeah my gaydar is broken lol"
    Her "well Mr. F is gay and so is Mr. D, Mr. P, and Mr. Z, and Mr. F went out with Mr. D"
    Me with a gaping mouth "OMG thats just nuts whats going on here, and i SOOO KNEW Mr. F was gay, always said it, lol"

    so this went on for a like about an hour after school just talking about this and that and how latino parents are the least understanding of them all and so on and so forth
     
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    Interesante... I am surprised that your teacher is allowed to give away that kind of information. But congratulations nonetheless!
     
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    Really, I'm surprised how quickly she gave away the secrets of other teachers, but nevertheless - great job!
     
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    that's great! i'm glad you found a supportive (and straight) teacher!
     
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    I'm proud of you for coming out to your teacher... I didn't know there were gay teachers! wtf?
     
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    Maybe tell her not to share the information as much as she shared all the stuff about the teachers. lol
     
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    isn't it funny that we assume that these teachers want their sexuality kept a secret?

    Is that still something that you have to do if your a teacher? I suppose some people might argue that it doesn't really matter, or that its inappropriate but its really drawing no more attention to your sex life than the pregnant teacher is it?...teachers still have sex :icon_wink
     
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    That's kind of funny. Maybe she assumed that everybody knew about these teachers already.
     
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    Great, SO didn't need that mental image... *High school horrible images now*

    Anyways, Congrats :slight_smile:
     
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    sounds like a fun convo =)
     
  12. darthmalik14

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    the thing is that in my school the guys say they are gay but since most of them are really hot the girls say they are straight and some even have rumors flying that this girl is going out with one of them, which is a complete lie, so people really dont care in my school wether they are gay or not, they might just not like the Mr. F because he can be a real prick sometimes and is really self centered so yeah
     
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    Congratulations!
     
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    Congrats!!

    I recently came out to one of my old teachers. He's gay too. I sent him a poem I wrote, and he said that is struck a personal chord with him, which just made me feel good. But anyway, there are a lot of gay teachers at my school (like 4) who are openly gay and joke about it. One teacher even brought his partner to school once.

    But still, congratulations!