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Came Out To Most Today

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by ccole, Mar 28, 2008.

  1. ccole

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    So today I officially declared that I am coming out as bi to everyone but my family. This was very hard for me as I am at college and live on an all guys floor. I told my roommate last night and I had told my closest friends before but it's definitely a big step for me. I am going to a drag ball tonight tonight to commemorate the event :icon_bigg

    Now the thing I don't get is why when I tell people that I am bi, they say that you can't be be. Everyone thinks you're either gay or straight. But I have feelings towards each gender. I am going to stick with what I think though because no one knows me better than I do.
     
  2. beckyg

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    Exactly! Just be yourself. Congratulations!
     
  3. Paul_UK

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    Excellent - well done!

    You know yourself better than they do. Ignore what they say you are or should be, if you're bi then tell them you're bi.
     
  4. CrimsonThunder

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    Congrats! do you mean that you can't be as in you cant be bi or they were just sure that you were straight? because I'm not sure. :slight_smile:

    Also how has each coming out gone? you didnt mention :slight_smile:

    Hope this made sense, Im hella tired.
     
  5. sexyalex

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    never said it better! I love people with that kind of courage and dignity:eusa_clap . good luck and hope this works in favour with ur family.

    Alex.:icon_bigg
     
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    Well, I'm bisexual, so I definitely believe it's possible! Just stick to what you know about yourself.

    And, congratulations!!!!!!!!
     
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    Good one dude! :grin:

    I'm bisexual too, so I am actually attracted to both genders, but the ratios... I ditched it. I rather admit myself that I am attracted to all of them at the same time. :grin: